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    Default help meeting this girl....it won't take more than 20sec to give an advice

    I got a girls number from an online dating site around a month ago. We both got busy witht hings so we couldn't meet before, but we kept in touch with light texts here and there. lately the last week, we've been sexting and texting every night before we sleep. I suggested a time to hangout but it didn't work with her.Then she suggested a time to hangout but It didn't fit my schedule,..so what do you guys suggest me to do in this case?

    I'm thinking to either:
    1) seduce her to see me through text the same night we text at our usual bed talk spontaneously (and heopefully she will be honry and accept)
    2) go formal with her and ask her to give me more free schdueles to see what's matches my schdule so we can hangout
    3) send her a text around bed time that I'm in the area and I thought of you if you're around...

    what do you guys suggest me to do?

    Thank you

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    Default Re: help meeting this girl....it won't take more than 20sec to give an advi

    Keep having FUN with your messaging...

    Then tell her,
    "We SOOOOO have to get together! Can you imagine the fun & laughs we'd have? It would feel like we were a celebrity couple, because everyone would be mesmerized by us & would wonder why WE were having so much fun.

    It would be an absolute riot to draw that sort of attention! hahaha! "

    And just leave it at that.
    You just baited her with that message... let her BITE THE HOOK!

    She'll start thinking to herself that you two DO INDEED need to meet up.
    And when a girl thinks SHE came up with the idea, then she's less likely to resist, because it kinda was HER idea. Know what I mean?

    All YOU did was plant the seed / drop the bait. YOU were making a comment & SHE picked up on it & pursued it.

    When a girl is seriously interested, SHE will make a HUGE effort & do anything within her power to meet you.



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    Default Re: help meeting this girl....it won't take more than 20sec to give an advi

    I must say your idea is super refreshing!! This is my new lesson "plant the see and let her bite the hook" I love it!!!!

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    Default Re: help meeting this girl....it won't take more than 20sec to give an advi

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post

    And just leave it at that.
    The girl responded to me "we'll be like a g6 " without offering a time yet. So for clarification, in order to make this technique more effective, do I have to stop responding to her until she offers a time to meet (to make her miss me)? or should I keep texting her while keeping the fun vibe after I plant the seed of us hanging out?

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    Default Re: help meeting this girl....it won't take more than 20sec to give an advi

    I would text her back & ask her fun questions about it.
    Like start making up crazy, funny scenarios together... sorta like role- playing.

    Get her to share some of her silly ideas as to how it could be...
    It's a "fantasy/ imagination" sort of thing that can get a girl to vividly imagine all kinds of outrageous things. & it's FUN.

    That's been one of my own favorite techniques when I start talking to girls.

    Sometimes it's simple stuff like "You & I are gonna move to Fiji, live in a hut on the beach & sell t-shirts. You'll be the model, I'll be the salesman.. and we'll make MILLIONS! "

    Then we'll start co-building a crazy story-line together about the whole "business".

    So, since you threw an idea her way & she already mentioned the G6 song, get her to build off of that vibe.


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    Default Re: help meeting this girl....it won't take more than 20sec to give an advi

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    So, since you threw an idea her way & she already mentioned the G6 song, get her to build off of that vibe.
    I tried your advice yesterday, and role playing worked like magic and two days ago I dropped her a line using your hook technique and told her that we should hangout together...so for today I'm confused because there are things I can do:

    1) it's either I wait for her to bite the hook..since I planted the idea of hanging out together
    2) or since I know it's her day off tomorrow, so I guess she wouldn't mind meeting tonight. So, I'm thinking to drop her a line today "Hey I'm gotta drop something at my friends house by (her area)...so get ready after you finish class, the G6 couple are going to have a badass ice cream "

    any thoughts...

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    Default Re: help meeting this girl....it won't take more than 20sec to give an advi

    This may be difficult for a lot of guys to actually understand... but, you want to express REAL INTEREST in her without giving off a desperate / over-eager vibe.

    There's a certain "sweet spot" in the balance that works like a charm. (And it takes experience to really feel that spot)

    Right now I would wait.
    YOU threw out some ideas/ suggestions. If you make the next move in the communication game right now, you "lose".

    It sucks, but it's true.

    I had to play this same game with a couple girls this past winter, & I held out.
    Yes, they DID come around & start to express MUCH more interest when I backed away...

    But I also had a couple other girls I was communicating with... and one in particular connected with me in a major way, so the indecisive ones missed out.

    What I'm saying is, Don't focus on ONE girl until THE RIGHT girl makes YOU her focus.



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    Default Re: help meeting this girl....it won't take more than 20sec to give an advi

    You know I read many books that talks about dating and male-female interactions, but this is the 1st time I hear about the "sweet-spot" balance. It's actually very true, and it can explain why I lost many girls. I'm getting recently the vibe from you that letting a girl go is a very powerful thing to do. It's like I'm giving her a gift of missing me.

    .you want to express REAL INTEREST in her without giving off a desperate / over-eager vibe. There's a certain "sweet spot" in the balance that works like a charm. (And it takes experience to really feel that spot)
    I will definitely wait as yo suggested, but is there any hints to help me recognize in my future interactions that I reached "the sweet spot" and it's times to make a move? This is a very tricky situation because I believe if I waited and just kept texting back and forth without making a plan to meet, there is a high potential of missing the "sweet-spot" and the girls will eventually get bored and never have any desire to meet with me...

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    Default Re: help meeting this girl....it won't take more than 20sec to give an advi

    That's a risk you have to be willing to take.
    It's scary as hell! Especially the first several dozen times you do it. But when you discover the girl who is TOTALLY hooked on you, (And maybe even more-so than YOU are on her?) It's SOOOOO worth it.

    You're gonna feel like shooting yourself in the heart on multiple occasions,before you discover THE GIRL...
    But the ones who help you along the way, should also get a round of applause.



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    Default Re: help meeting this girl....it won't take more than 20sec to give an advi

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    But the ones who help you along the way, should also get a round of applause.

    haha I will take that risk, and I guess I will have hundreds to applaud for


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