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    Niterider450 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need help gaming a shy 21 year old hb 8.5

    I met this hot beautiful tall girl and I am very attracted and she seems interested but she is very shy and acts if she's been beat down all her life and has very bad body language. How can I get her to open up?

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    Default Re: Need help gaming a shy 21 year old hb 8.5

    Girls like these will probably take longer to game imo however this might be due to past bad experiences. Try building lots of comfort and if there is one thing that I've learnt in gaming it's this: kino, kino and kino. It's like a cheat code to gaining attraction and affection.

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    Default Re: Need help gaming a shy 21 year old hb 8.5

    Pleb's right build comfort but don't forget about attraction or you'll end up being treated as a brother.

    On these types of girls, try to be more delicate. Don't go sexual flirting unless she's really comfortable with you.

    She could be really sensitive so if you're there just to bang her and leave. I would suggest to find another girl.

    The best advice I could give is not to get her to open up. She probably had some bad experiences. Forget about her past and take care of her present. Again She won't open up to you unless she knows she can trust you.

    I've been with that kind of girl before. When we broke up she tried killing herself (I was an insensitive brute back then). So please man, be very careful.

    Goodluck to you. May the force be with your game.

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    Default Re: Need help gaming a shy 21 year old hb 8.5

    sometimes all you need to do is to build comfort in the people who have no confidence. if you think about it--flip the switch if it was you. wouldn't you be attracted to a person who was spending a lot of time in your life if everything else was pretty sad or depressing?
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Need help gaming a shy 21 year old hb 8.5

    Focus on your positives and what YOUR vision is. Have fun with her, give her some reassurance if she needs it, lead her physically by touching and make it feel spontaneous. That automatically builds comfort. Her issues are somewhat irrelevant, whether she is shy or a stripper. The process is the same.

    Position yourself as a positive, interesting/mysterious guy that she is glad and lucky to have met and the rest will come naturally. Don't think too logically about her shyness or body language, think about it from an emotional perspective. You could talk about fashion for instance - even the shiest girls open up over clothes. Touch her clothes whilst complimenting and moving into distracted body kino. If she says something negative like 'Oh I hate fashion', you can neg/tease her gently because she will certainly have some sort of a fashion style and thought. Or you could say 'What do you think of my new jeans then?'. Grab her hand and rub it over your thigh saying 'See how velvety the new denim is?'. Your starting to take her mind to somewhere with positive sensory and physical emotions. Perhaps she is a shy book worm and you could use drama from a famous book in role playing attraction. It's not what you say but how you say it.

    You can act fast with all girls in building attraction and flirtation. The shy ones just mean you have to lead or calibrate a bit more.


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