GF going offline if her friend isnt on
Hey guys my current girlfriend seems to come online when her best friend is online and if he goes offline she soon after (probaby like 5 minutes after he does the same)
I have assumed she has him friendzoned but theres always this thought that she likes him more than me I know this could be me having problems myself but I caught this last week and monitored it ever since. It seems to get me frustrated. I find that I can't confront her about this as it would come of as needy and outstraight stalking.
I have came to the conclusion that he doesn't have many friends and is possibly lonely but overall my opinion on the guy is a loser.
Also she has asked me to go movies with her this Friday. But on Saturday shes having breakfast with this guy in mcdonalds although this guy doesn't take care of himself hygenic wise (as he smells like sh*t) always seems to have a negative attitude i've tried to befriend him with little success. He also doesn't seem to take care of himself in looks either as he has long greasy hair. She also told me she was going to be out with her girl friend to get her other girl friend a present
Course Of Action I will take
My idea was to go out to two different girls and see how she reacts and bring it up this way.
Her Saturday is basically having breakfast in mcdonalds with this guy than go shopping with her girl it might be a redflag about breakfast or im just overthinking (maybe I am not)
I'm concerned that he'll try steal her but it would just lower her social value but as I was in a group with them before she was chasing him while I was talking to other people.
Right now my option is to let her bring it up ask if the girl is going to be there and if not act supportive to give the impression I dont mind and will make her question her judgement and then go hang out with two other girls.
Please leave any suggestions you think would be appropriate or a new idea thanks
Last edited by kylemc; 05-13-2014 at 08:05 PM.
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