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Thread: GF going offline if her friend isnt on

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    Default GF going offline if her friend isnt on

    Hey guys my current girlfriend seems to come online when her best friend is online and if he goes offline she soon after (probaby like 5 minutes after he does the same)

    I have assumed she has him friendzoned but theres always this thought that she likes him more than me I know this could be me having problems myself but I caught this last week and monitored it ever since. It seems to get me frustrated. I find that I can't confront her about this as it would come of as needy and outstraight stalking.

    I have came to the conclusion that he doesn't have many friends and is possibly lonely but overall my opinion on the guy is a loser.

    Also she has asked me to go movies with her this Friday. But on Saturday shes having breakfast with this guy in mcdonalds although this guy doesn't take care of himself hygenic wise (as he smells like sh*t) always seems to have a negative attitude i've tried to befriend him with little success. He also doesn't seem to take care of himself in looks either as he has long greasy hair. She also told me she was going to be out with her girl friend to get her other girl friend a present

    Course Of Action I will take
    My idea was to go out to two different girls and see how she reacts and bring it up this way.

    Her Saturday is basically having breakfast in mcdonalds with this guy than go shopping with her girl it might be a redflag about breakfast or im just overthinking (maybe I am not)

    I'm concerned that he'll try steal her but it would just lower her social value but as I was in a group with them before she was chasing him while I was talking to other people.

    Right now my option is to let her bring it up ask if the girl is going to be there and if not act supportive to give the impression I dont mind and will make her question her judgement and then go hang out with two other girls.

    Please leave any suggestions you think would be appropriate or a new idea thanks
    Last edited by kylemc; 05-13-2014 at 09:05 PM. Reason: add more info
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    Default Re: GF going offline if her friend isnt on

    84 views and no replies? someone atleast
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    Default Re: GF going offline if her friend isnt on

    I'll keep it brief,

    My opinion on relationships is this. I trust a girl until she gives me a reason not to.

    I wouldn't play mind games to make her jealous, that is just showing her that I'm not confident in the status of the relationship . If she's your girlfriend you should have no problem with her hanging out with a guy of his caliber.

    The guy only started posing a threat when you considered him one. Fear doesn't exist without acknowledgement of a threat. For example, Larry Bird came into the first ever three point contest and said, "Which one of you are coming in second?" He felt no threat because he had confidence in his abilities. He wasn't discrediting his opponents but he knew he had laid out enough groundwork to be successful. And of course, he won the three point contest.

    Question to ask yourself : Are you doing enough on your end to keep her interested? Or are they just genuine friends who enjoy each others company?

    If your relationship and your connection with her is tight you should be able to trust her around Brad Pitt because you and her have built up something so special that she doesn't feel the need to look elsewhere.

    You're getting a little overly obsessive and analytical of the situation. Take a few deep breaths. You can talk to her about it but bear in mind that jealously is an unattractive trait to many. Make sure you're not slacking on your end.

    Just my opinion, take from it what you may.
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    Default Re: GF going offline if her friend isnt on

    @Othello the Great: I took your advice about me being a little overly obsessive. I took a step back from the situation and started concentrating on other things to keep me entertained as I read on Style's blog the other night about game in gereral and he pointed out the quote which is from the rules of the game.

    "The guy who fails at the game is the one who goes out looking for women to make him feel good about himself."

    I usually enjoy making people feel good in general. However over the course of the week I had done the complete opposite to what I enjoy doing. If it wasn't for your advice my over thinking would of gotten the best of me.

    Anyway on Friday, I got her to blow him out by asking if her best friend and the actual guy were gonna get together she told me that that it would never happen as he's just too ugly. So like you said there wasn't really a threat. She also said im bringing my other friend aswell to the breakfast so there was three of them instead of just the two.I also never went out to the girls as there was no need at this point but even thinking it through your point made sense.

    My wing was out at that time with his gf and confirmed that there was three. Even though I had never asked him to even do such a thing but I appreciate a loyal wingman.

    I just now have to actually sort my inner game out and stop coming to conclusions that are caused from overthinking which will indeed kill this relationship and also my game.
    Last edited by kylemc; 05-18-2014 at 01:06 PM. Reason: add info and correct a few mistakes
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