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    Default Approaching women while waiting for the train/subway?

    Sorry I didn't read the forums earlier this is a repost. When ever I catch the train to work or home from work I see a lot of beautiful women either walking fast to go home or just sitting around. The ones who are walking fast I was wondering what's a good opener to talk to them? The ones who are sitting around or waiting for the bart I have some mental issues that makes me a afc. I feel I fear failing and being laughed at by other people.

    So how can I approach women who are in hurry coming home from work or waiting around?

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    Default Re: Approaching women while waiting for the train/subway?

    HUMOR & confidence...
    Confidence...

    Be confident...
    (Get the vibe here?)

    If you can make a girl laugh with your confidence, you're SOOOOOOOO in there!!

    trust me!


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    Default Re: Approaching women while waiting for the train/subway?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    HUMOR & confidence...
    Confidence...

    Be confident...
    (Get the vibe here?)

    If you can make a girl laugh with your confidence, you're SOOOOOOOO in there!!

    trust me!
    Thanks and sorry I won't be buying your book. I've read countless books didn't help much.

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    Default Re: Approaching women while waiting for the train/subway?

    Hey Jae102

    For people who are on a train or they are waiting for a train/bus or for the women who are just walking (or just moving in any ways) you MUST use a direct approach and opener. What you have to say is easy because even a canned direct opener will work for you as long as you use a full on opener.

    For example if you stop a girl and say "I thought you were cute so I decided to come and say Hello" she might say "Thanks but I am in a rush". So you have to use a heavy and full on opener that makes her stop and listen to you.

    I see you refrain from buying books so here are my suggestions:

    Obtain an iPhone App which has both direct and indirect openers for many different situations. Alternatively you can search the Internet for direct openers and pick one which is full on and is easy for you to say.

    I hope this helps. To be honest I normally drive to work but every Friday I use public transport for the exact same reason as yours: Meeting and approaching beautiful women who use public transport too ;-)

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    Default Re: Approaching women while waiting for the train/subway?

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    Hey Jae102

    For people who are on a train or they are waiting for a train/bus or for the women who are just walking (or just moving in any ways) you MUST use a direct approach and opener. What you have to say is easy because even a canned direct opener will work for you as long as you use a full on opener.

    For example if you stop a girl and say "I thought you were cute so I decided to come and say Hello" she might say "Thanks but I am in a rush". So you have to use a heavy and full on opener that makes her stop and listen to you.

    I see you refrain from buying books so here are my suggestions:

    Obtain an iPhone App which has both direct and indirect openers for many different situations. Alternatively you can search the Internet for direct openers and pick one which is full on and is easy for you to say.

    I hope this helps. To be honest I normally drive to work but every Friday I use public transport for the exact same reason as yours: Meeting and approaching beautiful women who use public transport too ;-)
    Thanks. I don't want to get a book because I've read Art of Mackin by Tariq Nasheed, Double your Dating - David Deangelo, Mystery Method - Mystery, and watched countless video's by Carlos Xuma, Jad T. Jones, David Wygant, James Brito, Simple Pickup and other random PUA's enough reading. I have tons of lines but it's time to do but I will check those sites though.

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    Default Re: Approaching women while waiting for the train/subway?

    Mate if you have read books before it does not mean you do not need to read books any more. You need to learn either through reading books or being coached by a good coach, as long as you have problems with approaching women.

    The fact that you posted a question in this forum means that you still need to learn. From this sentence of yours "what's a good opener to talk to them" I can tell you have heaps to learn! If that thing that you need to learn is in a book, your wisest move is to read that book. I am surprised that you are happy to read a "forum post" but not a few pages of a book even though they say the same thing!!

    I agree with you on that you have to practice in-field. You will not get good at approaching women if you don't actually approach them. That being said, if you approach women without knowing what to say and what to do you will get blown out easily.

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    Default Re: Approaching women while waiting for the train/subway?

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    Mate if you have read books before it does not mean you do not need to read books any more. You need to learn either through reading books or being coached by a good coach, as long as you have problems with approaching women.
    This is the problem. I read all these books without applying them. I need experience, I can read all these books but being out on the field and taking action is what's really going to teach me those lessons. Don't think I'm not studying up. I still study too but wasting more money on books isn't worth it but coaching might be but not for $2,000. I think it's be better to make friends with people who actually have GF's and learn from them.

    The fact that you posted a question in this forum means that you still need to learn. From this sentence of yours "what's a good opener to talk to them" I can tell you have heaps to learn! If that thing that you need to learn is in a book, your wisest move is to read that book. I am surprised that you are happy to read a "forum post" but not a few pages of a book even though they say the same thing!!
    Dude you don't get it. Reading books will get you so far and books don't cover every scenario so I'd like to talk to people with experience to get an opinion that's I'll try. DUde I've read countless books I just want to get to the point rather than read all day. When I could use that time to approach and learn.

    I agree with you on that you have to practice in-field. You will not get good at approaching women if you don't actually approach them. That being said, if you approach women without knowing what to say and what to do you will get blown out easily.
    You missing the point, I know direct openers I was just wonder what is the best way. Direct was the answer not reading another book. Tariq Nasheed "Art of Mackin" alone is a good book that I have learned a lot from. I prefer to watch video's of infield approaches rather than read a book.

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    Default Re: Approaching women while waiting for the train/subway?

    Girls that are walking very quickly you'll have to talk to them when they stop at a red light. The girls who are waiting for the subway you can say something like this:

    "Hey, I saw you so I had to come over and talk to you because if I didn't then I would do exactly what I do when I miss the train. I would be kicking myself for missing the opportunity. Hi, I am Jae"

    Wait for her answer and then transition.

    Make sure you body language shows that you're confident.


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