Hello there Pick Up Gods. Haven't posted in a while. But here's my issue.
Yesterday was the day of my date I had setup with a HB9 I had met at a party a couple months back. Number closed, and ocassionally texted to come hang but she would always be doing something else. Soon after one night at a bar we made out. Probably three times on different ocassions. The third was the one I agressively pursued and had her on my lap. Kissing and very sexual kino. Tried to convince her to go back to her place and "hang" but she said it wouldn't be that easy and I had to work for it. I proposed we go on a date and she was fine with that. Texted her a couple days later and set it up plain and simple.
*I will also admit that I kinda am seeing anothed girl. HB8. Older girl (29 I'm 23) but fine as hell and more mature although reserved. Been dating her at a snails pace since Jan because I admit she is kinda boring and shy. Kissed her once. We stopped talking for 2 weeks and are back talking and making plans to hang out.
Yesterday the date started round 7. Picked her up, date went very well. I had alot of fun I'll admit. But two things bothered me that I'm kinda weary
1. She admited that her and her friends share boys. And she hadn't had a threesome in awhile. And that she's not used to dating and our date was the 3rd date she ever been on. She also said the main thing that got her on this date was that I was persistant and on it when it came to setting it up and she liked that. Honestly a threesome sounds awesome lolol. But I got off some slut vibes. Matterfact I know like two guys that already hit it. And would see her hooking up and flirting with alot of guys a couple weeks before the date. But nonetheless I had the calm cool face.
2. I kissed closed at her house when I dropped her off. She agreed to go to the local bar and have a few drinks but she drove her car this time (knew I wasn't getting any when that happened lol). At the bar thinga went cool, but she sat a couple inches away. And whenever I tried to make move she wouldn't resist but said she doesn't like public display of affection. I call her weird and she says "I am I like to keep you guessing". Throughout the night I kept saying we should chill at her place alot (being that I had to move in with my parents). She thought about it and said maybe, but she has a headache. I kinda roll my eyes lol. But when it was time to leave we made out heavy in the parking lot in a more private area. I still suggest we should go back to her place and "chill" lol. But she says no I have a headche, ya'know typical excuses girls use. She leaves, I'm kinda frustrated. But the date was alot of fun nonetheless.
What I'm kinda confused is. Did she turn down sex because she really likes me and doesn't wanna be seen as a slut? Do she want more out of this? I think she really likes me and didn't expect to have such a good time. Maybe she wants to be my girlfriend idk but I don't teally want her as my girlfriend. (I fear she will cheat lol). I kinda want the other girl I mentioned to be because I feel she's just more mature, reserved and will honestly be good for me since I'm trying to change me stupid partying ways.