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    Default 2nd date f-close escalation

    Hey guys,

    Went out with this British chick last night. Did the lot ie. dinner and after drinks at her hotel. Deep dived and built lots of comfort got her into talking about the possibility of breaking up with her bf back home (she's an expat and spends most of her time abroad). Asked her about what she thinks her current relationship is at from 1 to 10 she rated a 5. Clearly frustrated at how things are going with her SO back home. We had a few glasses of wine lots of kino and comfort building like I said. Towards the end she repeatedly asked if I was fit to drive home I said yeah why not. Dunno if that was an IOI for me to challenge which in hindsight I should have asked if I could stay over at hers for the night. Kiss closed her that nonetheless.

    Anyway managed to set up a second date for tonight however she insisted that I take a cab to hers instead of driving. Should I just go direct and ask to spend the night with her towards the end?

    Your thoughts guys.

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    Default Re: 2nd date f-close escalation

    From my experience the one thing that turns off women is to feel pressured. So I wouldn't ask her directly to stay over. Let her wonder what will happen. Once you get there you should make her feel as if you don't intend to stay the night so she is comfortable. Let it happen naturally so her guards stay down. She wants you to take a cab, you may agree but on your own terms, it's not like she should tell you what to do either.

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    Default Re: 2nd date f-close escalation

    keep it simple... suggest making dinner--you're bringing ingredients and you'll both make dinner.. after dinner then close... there's no real attachment there if you keep as simple as dinner plans where you both can be isolated and not bothered..


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