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    Default text game - next moves

    Hi guys,

    Right so long story short I was supposed to have date #2 with this HB7. Just to go back a bit we had our first date the day before and I managed to k-close and we agreed on date #2 at the end of it. Here's what happened in our text convo throughout the day:

    HB: How's your day? I'm shopping in Little India with my friend. Bracelets and earrings galore! Lol.

    Me: A little hung over in the morning but not too bad! Nice one, makes you feel just like home doesn't it haha. Let's keep the ball rolling shall we, half past 7 at yours?

    HB: It does! Lol. Will probably have to reschedule time as I'm going for the Sari fitting in a couple of hrs. I will text when i'm on way bk and we can gauge the time for you to set off. That ok?

    Me: deal!

    (a couple of hours later)

    HB: Hi. I'm currently meeting all of my friend's family! not sure what time I'll be back. Sorry. Wiil keep you posted.

    Me: Family introduction already! Arranged marriage to follow I suspect haha! No worries Laura, the place opens till late and considering the time we called it a day yesterday - the night's still young!

    HB: I know! I've met the immediate family and the in-laws. So many people in one day. And still haven't finished......sorry. If I'm back late do you want to do lunch tomorrow instead?

    Me: Hey. Can't do lunch tomorrow got something else on Dinner's a long shot they close at 10. Still keen for drinks if you're not too knackered by the end of it?

    HB: Ok. I'll text you when I get back to the hotel.

    (1.5 hours later and I got really tired)

    Me: You ok Laura? I think I'm gonna hit the hay haha. Let's work something out before you fly out Night! x

    HB: I'm ok - was't expecting it to be such a long day. My apologies. I would like that - let's sort something next week. Night x

    Ok so my question is when and how should I follow up. What do I text? Do I give her the radio silence? She's 5 years older than me hence I'm not sure if game playing is applicable here.

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    Default Re: text game - next moves

    Text her back in 2 days with a funny/witty statement...(Not a question). Let her respond and then invite her to tag along to something fun that you are already planning on doing. That way she see that you have a life and it goes on with or without her and not reliant on her.
    - Hope this helps brotha

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    Default Re: text game - next moves

    it sounds like you guys have a time frame established but from what i read so far you haven't made any plans. my suggestion would be to decide something you wanna do and invite her to it. the less date-y it is the more she'll be interested in just killing some time if it sounds fun. if it's close to your place you can easily isolate too if you get her interested enough.

    so what you should text her is either a time frame to meet again with plans you've set out OR emotionally escalate with a text game like truth or dare...

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    Default Re: text game - next moves

    Just wish her a good morning/afternoon and tell her to have a good day. Throw in a joke about crazy in-laws and steer the conversation from there. She's obviously into you...you're doing well. Don't overthink
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: text game - next moves

    Cheers for the reply guys - much appreciated. Trying not to over think but still struggling to figure out what sort of a 'fun' thing we could do at this stage (reminder: k-closed first date, had to reschedule second date so dynamics/momentum may have changed obviously)

    A simple coffee date probably isn't very fun and a formal dinner sounds rather bland as well at this point in time. Told her first date I play the guitar and she hinted that she'd love to have me teach her. Is it wise to incorporate this into date #2? Then I'll have to sort of nonchalantly have my guitar in my car or something along those lines.

    Open to suggestions as well as how to open her via text to set up said date.

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    Default Re: text game - next moves

    Right so, texted her the following on Monday:

    Me: Hello Missy! How's our favourite Anglo-Indian home bird doing? Smoothly integrated into your co-worker's family circle by now I should think. Lol! Hope your day turned up alright as well

    Her: Hi. Ha ha! I will be a fully fledged Indian bird come Saturday! I'm ok.......it has been a long day however. And you?

    (Went straight to ask for the date)

    Me: Ahh why's that have you got lots going on at work? I'm good thanks - gutted we didn't manage to grab Thai the other day however here's your shot to redeem yourself Laura How's your schedule looking say end of the week apart from the wedding?

    Her: Hiya - yes lots on at work this week. I've only just finished for the day! Re my schedule , I'm busy Fri eve and Sat. Sunday maybe be possible?


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