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Thread: I don't understand this particular human person at all...

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    Default I don't understand this particular human person at all...

    So I've been texting this girl I met online and maaaan. It's like when the universe showered the human race with sense of humor, she was all covered in protective plastic.

    Her: (She NEGGED me hard with somewhere along the lines of ugly or something I can't remember the exact words)

    Me: *looks at the mirror* Nah, still a chick magnet

    Her:Oh please, more like "d1ck magnet"
    Fag*
    :*

    Me: Haha that's actually true. I'm a chick and d1ck magnet.
    I'm not a fag... I'm super fag. I;m so fag I can't see straight. My ringtone is "It's raining men!" And I love all twilight films. I'm team Jacob! So yeah. I'm not a fag. I'm thuper fag.

    (Again I used this line but I Still can't remember who it came from. This is GOLD!)

    Her: OMG you too much

    Me: I know right? Thanks for noticing

    Her: Go lay down CapPickup

    Me: Stop being unfair. What's your name? (I call her by her "Screen name")

    Her: *Her name*
    Didn't i tell you?

    Me: Like the goddess. You know what it means?
    Nah but you did tell me all about *Screen name*

    Her: Yup
    Goddess of childbirth
    >:C

    Me: Haha "Queen of heaven" sounds prettier though (:

    Her: e.e no

    Me: Yes and i have no idea what that face means

    Her: Lol
    No. I like my "goddess of marriage and child birth"
    So, go away CapPickup.
    Lol

    Me: Haha I like your...style. I'm making you my new "PIG" (Pretend Internet Girlfriend) lol

    Her: I dont know if Gould be offended or...?

    Me: Why would you be offended by that? haha

    Her: The abbreviation..?

    Me: Heyyy that's me being sweet... PIG :*

    Her: Fu, FAG

    Me: Awww we already have sweet nicknames for each other! We'd make such a lovely couple.

    Her
    : I doubt that
    :*

    Me: Gosh! Grandma do you really take everything seriously? :*

    Her: Kill yourself

    Me: You're lovely. Were you always this nice?

    NO REPLY

    Basically she has no idea how to:
    1. have a fun conversation
    2. Use those damn smileys correctly hahaha

    So how do you actually handle this kinds of females?
    Should I text her again?

    Okay in my defense, She was being rude in our first few texts so I had to go asshole mode, just a little bit though. hahah

    Thanks guys. May the force be with your game.

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    Default Re: I don't understand this particular human person at all...

    dude you were on fire.. you some how need to transition to meeting up... thats all i know. you've gotten through those rings of fires man... seesh... i've never seen a recovery from an instant storm or Sh!tTests... props!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!

    she's obviously having fun now but you really need to shift it to meeting up. maybe something like you need to do an interview for your Pigs? lol i dont know i'm sure you'll come up with something.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: I don't understand this particular human person at all...

    Thanks man. haha I like your idea with the interviews. I'll definitely incorporate that!

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    Default Re: I don't understand this particular human person at all...

    Everything she's said is most likely intended as flirting, and not as an insult like you mentioned in the previous thread. If she actually thought you were a fag and wanted you to kill yourself, she wouldn't be talking to you. I personally have known girls who are really aggressive like this when texting. I highly doubt that she's *trying* to be rude, but she doesn't understand how to mitigate her texts to come off as more light-hearted.

    I think you should be able to understand this, considering that (no offense) you were the one calling her a pig, a grandma, and a girl you would only pretend to be with. That may seem clever (and maybe it is), but surely you can understand how she could take that as an insult. But, you're just flirting. Same situation with her.

    If you're not comfortable with how this conversation is going, then there's a couple things you can do. First, don't tell her that you "like her style" if you actually don't. Saying that will only encourage her. Second, try to orchestrate a meetup. This will help make the relationship more personal, after which she most likely will tone down the negging. I highly doubt she'll treat you the same way when you're right in front of her. Lastly, you could shift the conversation to talking about personal experiences, or something else that builds rapport, which will again draw her away from this hardcore negging.

    Edit: I also think DHV would help you here. A girl will be less likely to "insult" you if she perceives you as a powerful and cool person.

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    Default Re: I don't understand this particular human person at all...

    You did well with countering her tests... but you still let HER lead the interaction.
    You were having to REACT to what SHE was saying, rather than take the initiative to switch gears & lead the interaction elsewhere.

    That just takes practice & experience.
    But overall you were expressing confidence. That's good.

    You were a little cocky at times, which also works well with that type of girl... but don't get stuck in that mode.

    Learn to shift gears & take control.
    One way you can do that is to say something like, "Oh, that totally reminds me of (or makes me think of) xxxxx"

    Then throw whatever subject into the mix that you want to phase into next.

    Whether it's a past experience, or something you saw on TV, or a scene from a movie, or a particular food you used to eat... etc.

    It really doesn't matter WHAT the subject is, just lead her out of the negging mode she's in.



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    Default Re: I don't understand this particular human person at all...

    Thanks guys!

    Carter21 - Yeah I get what you mean. The PIG thingy was probably too much. hahaha but oh well, i thought it was funny. It is, too bad she didn't take it lightheartedly.

    T-mal - Ha! It's you again! Okay, you're right I should learn how to shift gears. I'd probably try to build comfort the next time we talk.


    P.S. I have no idea how to orchestrate a meetup wit someone I met online. I think it needs more attraction/comfort? It just requires so much trust to meet up with someone you haven't actually seen in person in comparison to some chick you scored at your friends pool party last Saturday.

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    Default Re: I don't understand this particular human person at all...

    If your personality comes across as entertaining and attractive it should be easy to convince her to meet up.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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