Hey guys so I've been dating a Cinderella for about 9 months now so far things have been really rocky we've been breaking up every couple of weeks and we fight at least a couple times a week, so far ever since I started dating her I thought she was a social butterfly but recently while we were drunk I actually got her to admit to me that she's an investor so that changed up her type to a Cinderella, the first three months we dated were amazing she fell madly in love with me fast but now I'm really struggling with this women but I want to keep her, so my question to any experts out there is how do I keep this Cinderella and get things back on track, what techniques and behaviors can I throw out there to make this girl fully devoted to me again?
I guess to put a little more info out there the main thing we fight about is money she doesn't give a crap about money and will litterally throw it out the window and I night out and I am very responsible with it, the other thing we can fight about is if she was saposed to have a fun night with me but changes her plans last minute and hangs out with other friends because I'm a very organized scheduling type of guy so when my plans change last minute and my schedule is thrown off it really upsets me
Any ways what do you guys think also she is a waitress at a Buffalo Wild Wings and I think I have some major competition with some guys she works with, she even told me they try hitting on her at work and from the sounds of it they have some threatening game for example the asked her if she was in a relationship and she said yes and he replied with "are you in a happy relationship?" That obviously right there was a technique to get her mind wondering if she's happy with me and the possibility of cheating, so how would I handle this work friend problem she's already gone out with these work friends a few times after work I think these guys are pulling some major game I even see on there facebooks they have a lot of girls giving them attention so it is a major threat I need to handle
Any advise and help is appreciated