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    Default Cinderella is driving me nuts (Pandora's box)!!! Help!!

    Hey guys so I've been dating a Cinderella for about 9 months now so far things have been really rocky we've been breaking up every couple of weeks and we fight at least a couple times a week, so far ever since I started dating her I thought she was a social butterfly but recently while we were drunk I actually got her to admit to me that she's an investor so that changed up her type to a Cinderella, the first three months we dated were amazing she fell madly in love with me fast but now I'm really struggling with this women but I want to keep her, so my question to any experts out there is how do I keep this Cinderella and get things back on track, what techniques and behaviors can I throw out there to make this girl fully devoted to me again?

    I guess to put a little more info out there the main thing we fight about is money she doesn't give a crap about money and will litterally throw it out the window and I night out and I am very responsible with it, the other thing we can fight about is if she was saposed to have a fun night with me but changes her plans last minute and hangs out with other friends because I'm a very organized scheduling type of guy so when my plans change last minute and my schedule is thrown off it really upsets me

    Any ways what do you guys think also she is a waitress at a Buffalo Wild Wings and I think I have some major competition with some guys she works with, she even told me they try hitting on her at work and from the sounds of it they have some threatening game for example the asked her if she was in a relationship and she said yes and he replied with "are you in a happy relationship?" That obviously right there was a technique to get her mind wondering if she's happy with me and the possibility of cheating, so how would I handle this work friend problem she's already gone out with these work friends a few times after work I think these guys are pulling some major game I even see on there facebooks they have a lot of girls giving them attention so it is a major threat I need to handle

    Any advise and help is appreciated

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    Default Re: Cinderella is driving me nuts (Pandora's box)!!! Help!!

    I think in a situation like this you need to maintain a frame that shows her that you are the one willing to walk away. It sounds like shes flirting with the idea of seeking other men. So you should seek something that locks in your social proof, high value and sparks interest in investment. The game of attraction doesnt end at the establishment of a relationship. If shes gone out with her guy friends from work you should too have a social life in which women should be present too. I think the worst thing you can do is share all of your friends and depend on each other. It becomes harder to be attractive because then you're worried about maintaining your circle that shes apart of.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Cinderella is driving me nuts (Pandora's box)!!! Help!!

    Awesome thanks for the reply! I was thinking the same thing! The only problem with that is if I were to go out with girls that were friends she would flip, she is probably one of the most jelious girls I've ever met. good thinking on being the one that would walk away every time we break up I tell her good luck with everything, she's a great girl, and I enjoyed spending the time I spent with her, I don't get upset act rude or anything and I think that drives her nuts that I'd be ok with leaving her then she prety much comes straight over and goes at it with me lol thank you so much for the advice I'm going to try this weekend to hang out with some of my girlfriends and see how it goes

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    Default Re: Cinderella is driving me nuts (Pandora's box)!!! Help!!

    If she flips it means shes not a dead fish in the relationship. I personally dont understand the logic she might have of you cant hang out with friends that are girls when she can hang out with friends that are boys... Hypocrite ?
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Cinderella is driving me nuts (Pandora's box)!!! Help!!

    Haha she is defiantly a hypocrite I think this is her logic she thinks that I'm hangin out with friends that are girls just to get her back for hanging out with friends that are guys she thinks I'm throwing it in her face and that's were a fight starts

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    Default Re: Cinderella is driving me nuts (Pandora's box)!!! Help!!

    Trll her you wont make her jealous if she wont make you jealous
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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