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    Default New girl with good start

    Hey guys I met this girl at student government volunteering about 4-5 days ago, and we weren't doing very much for that so we basically talked for an hour or so straight about really good; deep things. She responded well and asked lots of questions, and I got her number & snapchat. I texted her a lot the following night and it was probably the best text convo I've had with a girl, she sent lots of emojis and even a random picture. However last night our conversation wasn't as lively and today I snapped her and we barely talked at all. She's a grade below me and is pretty attractive (easy 8) with a great personality. I like her and want to hang out with her but need to get to know her better first. So my question is basically how and how often to effectively text and flirt with her while getting her to like me and not being boring. If I don't do the next conversation right I feel like I'll lose my shot. Please help!

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    Default Re: New girl with good start

    first of all realize you're in school, you got things to do as much as she does. i'd say don't over think things and don't over do your texting. you want the girl to chase you. to get her to chase you you need to have confidence and make it seem like you're busy and having a lot of fun--where she should be interested in joining you so she can have some fun too. it that makes sense you're probably ok. you're just over thinking everything. you can't have every day be an amazing text or day in general--you're going to have ups and downs. just be the guy whose trying to enjoy everything and you'll start to see she'll like you for your positive nature that she wants to have around. be honest with yourself and try not to follow every step of hers if it's got nothing to do with how you want to live your life. you're young--you're still easily influenced so make sure you're doing things the way you want to and not chasing hers. the way your relationships should begin is that you both mutally enjoy each other's company and compliment each other--don't rush it. but also don't get too comfortable. break rapport at times to flirt--so she knows you're a sexual being.. i'm not saying go for sex but you're a man--she should know this. hopefully this helps.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: New girl with good start

    Thanks it does help me be reminded of the proper perspective to have. I'm not very good at flirtng though, can I have some tips on how to do that effectively? Also how can I know when it's time to stop texting and ask her to hang out since we never see each other in person? Thanks

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    Default Re: New girl with good start

    Bro you can't always have fun awesome conversations in texting. At some point it's gonna get boring. The feeling is just really different when you're looking at your phone than looking at the actual person you're talking.

    Now would be a good time to stop texting and ask her out. Texting is always and will always be this secondary tool to build a relationship with someone. You should always do your best to see her in person and spend some time with her. Now if you can't do that. By all means text.

    As always, what I would advise you is to just have fun. Don't treat her like she's the last girl in your school.

    Treat her like the last slice of pizza, You would love to taste this last piece of perfection and you'd be pretty bummed if someone else gets a hold of it but you always have the option to order a whole new box. Never forget that.

    This is a convo i had with a girl. Just to give you and idea of what flirting is.

    Me: (Some really deep joke that requires a lot of thinking)
    Her: (laughs)
    Me: You got that? Wow I like the way you think. Almost as good as me.
    Her: Noooo you think like mee
    Me: Nooo you like me
    Her: No you like me
    Me: No you like me *kiss*

    See that? It's basically non-sense. I wasn't saying something important or romantic or awesome but I was confident, I was looking at her eyes and I was smiling. Bro remember the eyes is like your gateway to woman.

    Now I know you know this already but I'm just reminding you : Buy some condoms, you never know when you guys will be ready. It's always best to be prepared.

    Best Wishes. May the force be with your game.

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    Default Re: New girl with good start

    Quote Originally Posted by CapPickup View Post
    Treat her like the last slice of pizza, You would love to taste this last piece of perfection and you'd be pretty bummed if someone else gets a hold of it but you always have the option to order a whole new box.
    HAHA!!! best analogy ever of the perfect mindset for gaming a girl
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: New girl with good start

    I could not agree with you more about talking in person being better than texting. I hate texting but feel like I have to in order to get know her better before we hang out. She seems like a shy and slower moving type with this kinda stuff and I don't want to freak her out because she's great once you get to know her. She's given me really positive vibes though so I might leave it for a few days to see if she texts me and then ask her to hang out. Does this sound like a good plan, and what are some strategies I could use beyond this (or instead if you can think of one that's better)? And also advice for breaking down boundaries so we can talk about more suggestive things? Thanks in advance


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