Bimmer needs a repair, please service....
Fella's it's been a while since I've graced my presence on a post lately, mostly because I have been in a serious relationship for the past 5 almost 6 months. I come to you as a former brother in the art of PU.
I'll be direct ...
I feel as if I have no control. Not just in my relationship, but in life. Literally all my life consists of is work, my gf, & one day a week with the buds; while work is great ($$$) and my girlfriend loves me to death, I still have an overwhelming feeling of doubt and sometimes insecurities. 6 months ago I was the farthest thing from these feelings. PU was my 24 hour hobby, I lived it, walked it, & studied it... confidence wasn't an issue, mostly because I had a great life (materialistically). The cars and watches and clothes and all the other bs that I psychologically rely on don't even matter now because my girlfriend loves me for the person I am. Unfortunately, I have a hard time loving myself. "Why?" is the question.
Relationships are not my specialty. Getting dates? NO PROBLEM! Taking a girl home? I'll bet you $100 I can! Staying in a relationship with the girl that I love more than anything? ..... I hope so. An old friend in PUA has recently questioned if I have become comfortable, & I think he's onto something.
Forgive the rambling, I suppose I just need to talk. I'm looking for long term relationship advice here fellas. Tips, tricks, & hints for keeping the relationship going. I'm also on the lookout for some personal advice anyone can give me based on what you have read.
Thanks in advance, Bimmer.
I wish I was little bit taller
I wish I was a baller
I wish I had a girl who looked good
I would call her - Skee Lo, the OG AFC