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Thread: Re-opening on facebook - 3 cases

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    Default Re-opening on facebook - 3 cases

    I hate facebook in the field of pickup. I really do. So I'm kinda mad at myself - partly because I know my game on facebook sucks and partly because even so I canal some of my interactions on this channel. I have 3 cases gentlemen, I would appreciate your help.

    ad1: A few weeks ago I met a cute brasilian exchange student at the bar. She was with her girlfriend, I was with my friend, we had some great convo, # and facebook-close. I had problem setting a date - she wasn't able to make it, but asked for an other day, and ask me to join with her and her friends at a party like 2 times. I weren't able to join, and I haven't set up an other date since then. As time goes by, the attraction is decerasing as I feel. A few days ago I tried again, giving her 2 options, which day is working for her: she said "I have to check my schedule ". I was like "Ok, Mrs. President, I take a nap now, you have time until I wake up". Nothing since than - I didn't write to her either.

    ad2: I was doing some daygame a few days ago, direct approach, have some talk - she asked me how she can reach me on facebook, and added me right that time. I wrote her like 2 days after, it went something like this:
    ME: You will not be a dentist! (she is studying to became one)
    HER: Don't say that
    Like one day later:
    ME: No, really, you will not be a dentist! Because then, you will not be able to wear that sexy dress that you are wearing in that picture. And white robe is just not good for you.
    HER: Hey, I could wear sexy dress under white robe. And white robes are not ugly.
    ME: You are right, you can wear sexy dress under that, but what if a guy like me walk in? You won't be able to bear yourself! And that sexual tension! But wait, I just imagine you, like sexy lady doctors - that's wild!

    No responde from her. Maybe it was too soon to escalate and go on sexual talk?


    ad3: I'm going to the USA for a summer, working on a camp and than travelling - stuffs like that. So at the public information of this programme and at the visa interview, I saw this girl - cute as hell. I told her something about looking like Anna Kendrick, but hadn't got much time and chance to talk. But I found her on FB, add and write to her. We had 2 brief, bt fun talk - she is like always on a run, reply very slowly. Last time she was like "sorry gotta go, talk to you tommorow", but nothing happened.

    So this is my 3 cases on facebook - do you have any advice how to re-open this girls? I woudl also appreciate any suggestion or opinion.
    Cheers,
    Adam

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    Default Re: Re-opening on facebook - 3 cases

    your first girl... don't push too much. i ran into the same thing. give her like a week to respond or something. still be nice but when you do message her--make it seem like something reminded you of her.

    Lol... too strong for that dentist i think. haha.

    the 3rd girl... it just seems you timing is bad. too hard to tell if you need any other help besides that. maybe you should facebook her something that isn't time sensitive... suggest hanging out in a non dating environment.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Re-opening on facebook - 3 cases

    2nd girl: I know I just can't give up because of shit like that - but I don't know how should I form my tone. Certainly, I must back up with sexual talk, but I don't want to go completely friendzone-dangered AFC and avoid sexual tension. I'm thinking about what you wrote in the 1st girl part: some random message, something reminded me of you, or some other attraction-spark line.
    Thanks for the advice!


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