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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    Never said i was a nice guy. I dont play around with people's emotions. Why pretend to be someone im not?
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    Quote Originally Posted by AlphaBrah View Post
    Well I haven't sent her anything, ever since she sent that... She must wondering what the hell is going on.... Her attraction for me slowly dwindling I'd imagine... Thanks for the help guys; I'm done. And real d1ck move artandale should've sent me that via pm or better yet not said anything at all.... When someone comes to help me; and they see that message they're going to be like "Oh he's not helping him anymore; so nor I am" d1ck move man d1ck move
    Chill. Art isn't trying to insult you, he's trying to make a point. You're focusing too much on saying the perfect response. What she wrote indicates that she's already WAY into you, which means that you don't need to come up with something particularly clever, funny, witty, etc. Her message can be summarized in three letters: DTF. The "shut up and get over here" message would have worked just fine. The one you want to send isn't bad in most situations, but is inappropriate given the tone of what she wrote. What she sent you was extremely serious and intimate, so responding with humor is not smart.

    Also, an alpha male is not bothered by trivial things such as a random internet stranger being upset with them. Being called out by one person is not reason to leave the site. Moreover, its a faulty assumption to say that one person deciding to not help you will cause everyone else to follow suit. That does not logically follow. Again, this isn't an insult either, its simply a recommendation - don't be overly bothered by people not liking something you do.

    I would still send art's post, you just have to account for the fact that its been several hours and you haven't responded. Say, "just got back from X and saw that. 8 words: Shut the hell up and get over here. *address*"

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    I'm not interested in getting into a big troll argument but seriously, how is that a d1ck move!? These guys all gave you the same advice.. at least 5 times: get off the phone and meet her!! Yet you continued to ask what to say next. You've come here to ask for advice from guys that know what they're talking about. Now you don't have to like or agree with everything they say but when more than one person gives you the same advice it's a pretty safe bet

    Not trying to be a d1ck, just like artendale wasn't, but we're all here to help.. take it or leave it my friend.

    Quote Originally Posted by AlphaBrah View Post
    Give me something clever to say to that; then I'll text here my address and say come over now.
    If you've come here to continually ask "what do I say next?" then you're not going to improve.

    "Whoa your fingers must've grown biceps after writing all that ...haha. I'll give you my address but under one condition don't make fun of my G.I. Joe collection (hey he is a REAL American hero)…haha "

    This is a good, fun text but she just opened up to you and spilled her guts (albeit in a way that threw up a red flag with me, but to each his own). You don't need to be flirty and build anymore attraction at this point. The first part I would drop for something like Ra1d said; you like what she said and you want to meet up or that actions speak louder than words.

    She is basically begging for the D all you have to do is get her over and give it to her!! And at the risk of sounding like a broken record.. Stop texting and meet up haha

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    i bet this fire is going to burn out because it wasn't stoked...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    She's obviously DTF.

    The fact that you even cared to type out the perfect response instead of just telling her to get the fuck over to your house makes me cringe.

    Artandale. Mad respect for your advice lately. I feel like you're one of the few people who "get it" coming up, seeing as how I, & many other, "experts" don't frequent these forums anymore.

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    lol @kyle

    what really helped me understand a lot of things was watching a lot of videos from the 21 convention. seriously--watch them if you haven't. the theories behind the techniques are pretty solid in how to confront your own fears. its not about executing them the same way but understanding that there is time frame for everything--with that said you're the one in control as the PUA. its your move when to pull the trigger. if you miss out on it you can't blame the girl. she's giving you all the signs you need to do what you need to do to pick her up and close one way or another.

    as for frequenting as of late--i'm still trying to answer everyone else's problems how i'm hoping i would answer them when they happen to me in the future. its the whole mentality of faking it till you make it. i think in the last month of being on here i've done a clear examination of all my inner game issues and slowly addressing them one by one. its not perfect but i'm loving the results i'm getting. i think i owe a lot of this development of mine to everyone's who raised a question and those who gave perfect examples of how to get out of your head and get into the girls head. attraction is not out of your control--you can build it even though these girls have their own principles and boundaries. i think if you're smart and well rounded in breaking apart whats going on and able to make decisions as problems occur you're golden. i owe it to everyone on the forum as much as i owe it to myself.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    Sorry wrong thread lol! WiFi sucks lol
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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ lockdown had the better wording. lol sorry i was lazy.
    It's ok man. Always remember to use the fuel she gives you. She likes adventures, try that... She likes burgers, show her a great burger place (or tell her you don't know what the big deal is about so and so burger place. Maybe she can give you her expert opinion) etc.

    Keep at it. I doubt you are in a losing situation at this point.
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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    Alpha brah your woman is really putting her self out there..sounds like you like her but may have been scared or not.may update here what has gone on.if has even gone sour could be salvaged.there are few things you must do.

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    You guys want the update? OK I'll give you guys the update.... Right after this commercial break ...haha OK folks welcome back! The update as promised.... OK so shall I give y'all the long update or the short update hmmm... What the hell I'll give y'all both. OK the short update is f-closed. The long update, however; f-closeddddddddddddddd dddddddddddddd

    It was great I texted her my address and she came over, we got it on immediately surprise surprise... Afterwards we went mini golfing and I made a wager that the winner would be crowned “the coolest person in the world.”

    I won, of course. After I beat her I gave her a hug and said "Wow since I'm the coolest person in the world now, I can't be seen with the likes of you now get off me...haha" pushed her off me and gave her a smirk and a wink. Turned around and walked out the building haha. We got in the car, I did some teasing and high value small talk and what not. I was clicking on all clinders at this point... I was ON fire (figuratively speaking of course) arrived at her place. F-closed again.. BOOM!

    I want to thank everyone who contributed to this thread! You sexy bastards you..Give yourselves a pat on the back... And yes even YOU art even you.... *cough* d1ck *cough* ...haha


    And there you have it! Hail & kill my brothers!


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