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    Default Umm yeah so this happened...

    Gentlemen,

    I need your help... So I'm not in emotional quicksand, per se, it's just that in all the five weeks that I've been doing PUA, this has never occurred, and would look to know how to handle it.
    I met her yesterday, had a solid text convo, but yeah when I woke up this morning, literally 5 seconds later I get a text from her what's the chances of that?

    Saying: " I want you to want me unconditionally"
    " That's my only request"
    " Have a gud 1 kay."

    So judging by those texts, she's already in love with me.... Standard lol. Perks of being a PUA, eh? :P She sent that 2 hours ago there's many ways I could play this

    A) I could just ignore all that and just send her a witty funny text tomorrow

    B) I could just reply to "Have a gud 1 kay."

    C) I could reply to the want me unconditionally bit, but risk saying the wrong thing, and have her lose all attraction for me....

    Suggestions?

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    I wouldn't take that quote seriously,because she probably doesn't know what it means herself and copied it from some kind of a poem or a song.

    Say something funny about it.

    "I want you to want me to want you unconditionally "

    Just because it also doesn't make sense.

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    interesting.

    part of my first instinct is to reply with something like...

    "too bad you never said to show it. (insert a winky face--i don't know which emocon it is)"

    "didn't know i was a drive thru. but coming right up! that'll be 7 minutes in heaven please (insert winky face)"

    ultimately i think you should be flirty about it. she's already kind of being flirty and forward. for sure you should acknowledge it. don't be push too hard until she uses much more... explicit wording--match her level of intensity. remember to always try to get her to emotionally respond. if you don't she's probably going to trail off into boredom a lot sooner. your goal is to meet up in person. once she responds to you acknowledging you should try to shift things to inviting her some place, some kind of meal at hers or yours and get things going from there.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    Raid's suggestion makes some sense, just add a tongue or smiley emoji to emphasize that you're being light-hearted. Honestly, this is something I would try to shift the conversation away from ASAP, considering how sensitive she might be to your response.

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    Sorry if this is a double post. WiFi went crazy.

    "I want you to want to buy me a new car. I'm glad we are so open and honest with each othe "

    Just my gut reaction. Another variation is "I want you to love (name something you like to do or care about) unconditionally." It can be a hobby, a show, a pet etc.
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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    So yeah here's the update....

    I sent the second response that artandale said. Created some fun roleplay, she said she wanted me supersized lol pretty funny...

    Today I sent her a witty text chatted a bit, then I said "Are you adventurous? 'Cause I can't date you if you're not."

    To which she said " Yeah I would like to go on a adventure with you"

    Truth be told, I probably could've got her on a date right there and then I just want to make sure I get her 100%, slow and steady wins no race; but it does when it comes to text game. Will ask her out tomorrow.

    So I just went with the bank robbery roleplay did that for a bit then said "Lol wait a second... How did this whole bank robbery thing come about again?"

    She retorted with "PSh I was wondering the same thing! But uh I think it started off with an adventure with you...lol"

    I said " I was thinking that you did some sort of special woman jedi mind trick on me ...haha. You're a sneaky one buttercup."

    She said " Jedi mind trick? Lmaooo, I'm not the sneaky one, I'm just following your lead"

    That's the end of it... I'm thinking of saying "OK, so if I were to jump off a cliff you'd do the same? OK that's good to know..." ( send ) " But yeah I've gotta go, I have to feed my pet mountain lion and what not... But if you find yourself obsessively thinking about me, drop me a text I'll try to reply when I can " ( send)

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    thats fine. great job. you need to lock in time seeing her now. escalate at a comfortable pace.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    OK, well it doesn't seem like anyone else has anything to add for the time being so, I guess I'm going to go ahead and send it now... Knowing my luck though I'll probably think of something better the moment I send it ...haha but it's all good :P

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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    She already said she will go on an adventure with you. What are you waiting for? Plan an adventure and tell her to meet u. Give it to her like a mission."your mission... Meet me at such and such for a great time. Failure to do so will result in immediate expulsion from agency."
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    Default Re: Umm yeah so this happened...

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ lockdown had the better wording. lol sorry i was lazy.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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