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    Default Cinderella cheated (not technically but cheated)

    Hey everybody so I'm dating a Cinderella, based on Pandora's box, and we've been on and off for about 9 months now recently we got in a fight and I broke up with her and told her I never wanna see her again and she emediatly went back to her ex boyfriend and fucked him the next day she tried getting back with me but obviously didn't tell me she hooked up with her X, I found out a week later after answering a phone call of hers in the middle of the night,
    She's begging me to take her back and trust her and says things will be different, my question to all you is if I take her back and work on things, am I disrespecting my self as a man??? Is she only begging me to take her back to find out if I'm a self respecting man? Is this a test?? And how likely is she to do this again? I'm kinda stumped any input is greatly appreciated

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    Default Re: Cinderella cheated (not technically but cheated)

    well, its hard to say if it's a Sh!tTest or not because she has messed up and cheated on you. its a serious thing. my 2 cents is if you want her give her small hoops so you can build rapport and trust. as for all those questions you have--only you can find out from talking to her. obviously she feels bad.

    one thing to note is you have the moral high ground. with that said though, you should never ignore her unless you're ending it. only you can decide that. if you're looking to get back with her you need to have her qualify herself to you in a way that is safe and beneficial to the both of you.

    in some ways you should really have her face the facts--how can you trust her again? how does she expect you to move on with or with out her from here? can this relationship still work since she's cheated on you--how is she going to move past this guilt when you're ready? will she always feel guilty? will she change for the better of your relationship? she needs to be straight with you while in the end you can never really know that you can trust her until she's some how proved it to you on her own--in a guilt free way.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Cinderella cheated (not technically but cheated)

    Great insite thanks man you've givin me a lot to think about

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    Default Re: Cinderella cheated (not technically but cheated)

    Yeah man its tough but i think your best option is to let her figure out things for yourself and convince you if she wants you back so badly. This isnt a situation where eeryone can win. Its about how two people can move on with or without each other. You have nothing to prove. You dont really need to force her to jump through hoops either because then its harder to see her as a person when shes just looking for your validarion. Im a big advocate of being present and honest with myself and with people around me. Ill listen to them and hear them out and if i think theres something to respond to ill say it respectfully. In not ill just walk away if i dont think i can mend myself or that relationship. Its tough man. Best of luck
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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