Re: Cinderella cheated (not technically but cheated)
well, its hard to say if it's a Sh!tTest or not because she has messed up and cheated on you. its a serious thing. my 2 cents is if you want her give her small hoops so you can build rapport and trust. as for all those questions you have--only you can find out from talking to her. obviously she feels bad.
one thing to note is you have the moral high ground. with that said though, you should never ignore her unless you're ending it. only you can decide that. if you're looking to get back with her you need to have her qualify herself to you in a way that is safe and beneficial to the both of you.
in some ways you should really have her face the facts--how can you trust her again? how does she expect you to move on with or with out her from here? can this relationship still work since she's cheated on you--how is she going to move past this guilt when you're ready? will she always feel guilty? will she change for the better of your relationship? she needs to be straight with you while in the end you can never really know that you can trust her until she's some how proved it to you on her own--in a guilt free way.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.