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    Post How do I pick up a girl at the gym?

    I'm 19 and I go to the gym regularly. What's the best way to pick up a girl at the gym? For a Number or an instant date.

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    Default Re: How do I pick up a girl at the gym?

    Be different.
    Don't do the same things every other shmuck is doing, while they stare & drool at her... and creep her out by chomping at the bit for a number / date.

    Start by confidently joking with her & razzing/teasing her.
    Be playful & fun, and don't be all googly-eyed when you talk to her.

    Use words like spunky / sassy / feisty / adventurous / assertive / eclectic... (and so on) when you describe what you assume her personality to be.

    Most guys will push for her number & a date right away.
    Yes, it's true that you WANT that... but don't express it right off the bat. That's a rookie mistake.


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    Default Re: How do I pick up a girl at the gym?

    talk to her without hitting on her. more than likely any guy who approaches her in a gym she will think he's hitting her. your best bet is to get her into a neutral situation that isn't grounded into competition. find out if she likes to eat / drink some place and see if you two can arrange to go. obviously pick something that fits to what you want. don't just cave in because thats what she wants.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: How do I pick up a girl at the gym?

    How well do you think this would work, "since we hangout at the same place all the time, we might as well get to know each other."

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    Default Re: How do I pick up a girl at the gym?

    Meh--its a little too datey and pick upy. Id keep it simpler if possible.

    "Hey, do you do any juicing? Heard about this place xxxxxx. Know if its good?" And then see if she wants to go after the gym or another time
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: How do I pick up a girl at the gym?

    Small city, nothing like that here. Any other ideas?

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    Default Re: How do I pick up a girl at the gym?

    Don't think into this to much, it sounds like you might already. Artandale gave you a great idea, just adjust the attraction. Personally wouldn't start out asking a girl about the place I'd want to take her, it's clear to her than as it progresses why you came up, but do what you must.

    I've just started hitting up the gym where I moved and haven't had many opportunities to game, but I can tell you it's not going to be as hard as it seems. Next time you go, watch all the guys that look and ogle at her, and then watch how many actually go up and talk to her. Bet you it's close to none. Do yourself a favor and stop looking at her until you approach her, or your in a range to talk to her, this should relieve some AA and won't objectify her as much in your mind, taking that pu**y off the pedestal.


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