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Thread: Sh1t test to the max!

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    Default Sh1t test to the max!

    Hey guys, I've posted a few times in the past week about my online dating experiences and have learned an insane amount of knowledge. In fact, today, I used some of the knowledge I've gained from online gaming to number close a HB9 at a baseball game. But I've ran into another situation with a HB9 online that has me pinched sideways. Not my best game, but thinking I could still recover with the right conviction. I'm gaining some intense knowledge and hope to do so more with your help. Opened HB9 on POF yesterday...

    Me: Wow, you seem like a go-getter! Full of energy, spunk, and possibly Creatine ... I'm almost intimated.

    Her: So to be honest I almost didn't read your message because of the "muffin stud".. but you had me at creatine hahah

    Me: Haha well thank you for making me self conscious about it...

    Me (5 hours later): To be honest... the whole power clean picture was way too intimating. I'm not sure how I'd feel about going out with a girl who could lift me over her head

    Her: Haha well glad to hear we are both not interested

    Like I said, not my best game with the reply but I tried to recover with the line 5 hours later. Extremely sloppy, but it felt the right call at the time. Still... call me farkin confused. If her uninterest truly ran deep, why would she reply? Total sh1t test. I have to assume interest here. But the reply to this is one is that of walking a tight rope... suggestions, please
    Last edited by Bballking; 05-30-2014 at 11:23 PM. Reason: Missed a few details

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    Default Re: Sh1t test to the max!

    Honestly, she's probably not shit testing you and is serious. I say this because you made your disqualifier an obvious joke, whereas she made no such attempt. She just straight up said she's not into you. It seems pretty clear-cut. I also don't get how her replying means she actually is interested. Writing a ten word message isn't hard - its not something that takes so much effort to do that you would only go out of your way to do it if you liked the person. Who knows, maybe an expert can correct me here. But at the point where we take "I'm not interested" to mean anything else, I feel like we're starting to over-analyze.

    couple tips: You know this, but PUA is big on self-confidence, and you said two things that are contrary to this. 1. That you were intimidated by her, and 2. That she made you self-conscious. Even as a joke, its not smart to portray yourself as either of these things. Fortunately, thats a very easy thing to correct.

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    Default Re: Sh1t test to the max!

    Few issues, in a nutshell you missed this one in terms of shit test.but she liked that other thing.your text seems a bit comfort based.turn up attraction.

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    Default Re: Sh1t test to the max!

    Her: So to be honest I almost didn't read your message because of the "muffin stud".. but you had me at creatine hahah

    YOU: You don't like muffin studs? Gosh! You're weird.

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    Her: Haha well glad to hear we are both not interested

    YOU: Both? haha you're adorable.

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    Now she might be serious about this. It might not be a shit test. But always think everything is a shit test. The key here is dont be serious about it, even if she is. Just keep it light and playful stay away from serious stuff, do that for later when you're in a relationship.

    Goodluck. May the force be with your game.

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    Default Re: Sh1t test to the max!

    Haha, yeah you guys are totally right. I wrote this up last night with a heavy buzz She's clearly not interested.

    Carter21: Thanks for the reality of the self conscious line. I actually knew it sending it but for whatever reason it got me thinking of how many other girls may have deleted my messages solely based on my name. Girls get slammed with messages everyday and have to weed somehow. Let my emotional state run with me. Great lesson!

    Hardrock: Yup, missed the attraction, and totally farked the sh1t test in her first reply.

    CapPickup: Much, much better game than I played. Thanks for the insight. As already mentioned this one is washed out, but I'm going to through your "Both? haha you're adorable" line in there for sh1ts and giggles. Let ya know how it goes.

    Thanks fellas!

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    Default Re: Sh1t test to the max!

    Good thread trying to get in game again, the alpha that i am


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