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    Default Re: There is this girl who is confusing me, I don't know what to do :(

    Ofcourse I want her to chase me, I just don't know why. Can you guide me? Im new #AFC.

    How do I build up my "self worth", any links, tips etc.?

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    Default Re: There is this girl who is confusing me, I don't know what to do :(

    Correction: How do I acknowledge a girls emotional state? Can you give me some examples?
    I really want her. Examples of how to get her to chase me?
    Well I'm not thirsty. When it comes to having fun for a night, I can call myself a pro, but when it comes to emotional stuff, I suck.

    But I think I did something wrong. Last night around 00:00 she sent a snap while I was out partying (Dont know if it was to all her friends, definitely not on my story) where she wrote "one of those days.. -.-" where she took a mirror selfie, only wearing a t-shirt, while pulling it down to cover her panties, lol. I thought it was a bit attention seeking, but I asked her if she was okay, and she just said she was tired of nothing. I asked her if she was sure, and she didn't respond.

    Earlier yesterday, after your pro tip, I wrote to her, and she said she might stop by my house (for the first time). I first asked her if she wanted to get some coffee this Wednesday, but I forgot that I had to babysit my baby brother, but she was welcome to stop by if she wanted, good sign?

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    Default Re: There is this girl who is confusing me, I don't know what to do :(

    you have to stop trying to get quick answers / results. you have to work on yourself here and learn more about how attraction works if you want her to chase you. i spent the last month reading and watching seminars, podcasts and self improvement books not to mention psychological studies on human behavior. i feel like giving you my suggestions and tips isn't really going to help you learn anything and its going to be more like i did all the work for you and your emotional state just so you can get laid. you have to improve on yourself. you have to learn body language and be keen to emotional statements to what a woman is saying. it's not about over thinking it and getting strung up on what she said. its about acknowledging her feelings but still being yourself and living a life you want.

    you should be learning these things for yourself instead of depending on the tips and tricks of others. i gave you a suggestion based upon what i would do. i put myself in your shoes. you have to ask why did i suggest these ideas? why did they work? if you can answer these questions yourself you have a better direction on where to go with her. even if it's in regards to hanging out with you as you're babysitting your brother.

    you need to understand that you don't need to play games with a girl who is already attracted to you. you also need to understand that if she's attracted to you she won't give a flying fack about what you guys do. lastly you need to understand that only you can hold yourself back. i don't want to give you any suggestive tips for you to use and just spit at her because you're not listening to me when i say learn to read a woman's body language. you can only read her body language in person. in 1 on 1 face to face situations people find it harder to lie. if you're face to face with her you can also escalate at her pace when she's not running away from you. when you're face to face you can show her how you feel instead of telling her. why is all this important? because if you used my suggestion earlier it means you're acknowledging her emotional state in how you've recklessly only sought out your feelings and desires in a potential relationship. if you can't understand this then any other advice i give you won't help you in improving anything other than chances of you just getting a one night stand with her which--she might regret.

    if you want to improve upon yourself you need to do some research within the pua community. there are resources within this forum. there are other resources in which some pua guru's are selling some stuff... and then there are some free seminars you can watch on youtube that help you understand attraction and how it begins with yourself. i will give you one quick shortcut to improving your self worth and that's to always make no apology for who you are and accept the responsibility.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: There is this girl who is confusing me, I don't know what to do :(

    Quote Originally Posted by Dash19 View Post
    Last night around 00:00 she sent a snap while I was out partying (Dont know if it was to all her friends, definitely not on my story) where she wrote "one of those days.. -.-" where she took a mirror selfie, only wearing a t-shirt, while pulling it down to cover her panties, lol. I thought it was a bit attention seeking, but I asked her if she was okay, and she just said she was tired of nothing. I asked her if she was sure, and she didn't respond.
    i also think you did something wrong here... she was lonely and you thought she was sad? you should have responded with something that acknowledges her feelings and challenges her to want you to be there--not to think she needs help when she's obviously in a sexy selfie pose... no clue why you thought she was sad if you said she was in a tshirt and underwear posing for you... to me it sounds like she wants to flirt with you... do some studying about the pua community and why people do what they do and how they do it. some of it will help improve your inner game.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: There is this girl who is confusing me, I don't know what to do :(

    Darn.. is it Too Late to aknowledge her? Perhaps asking what she was doing last night?

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    Default Re: There is this girl who is confusing me, I don't know what to do :(

    Good luck. Have fun with that.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: There is this girl who is confusing me, I don't know what to do :(

    Thanks for the help sir. Appreciate it!


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