Re: There is this girl who is confusing me, I don't know what to do :(
you have to stop trying to get quick answers / results. you have to work on yourself here and learn more about how attraction works if you want her to chase you. i spent the last month reading and watching seminars, podcasts and self improvement books not to mention psychological studies on human behavior. i feel like giving you my suggestions and tips isn't really going to help you learn anything and its going to be more like i did all the work for you and your emotional state just so you can get laid. you have to improve on yourself. you have to learn body language and be keen to emotional statements to what a woman is saying. it's not about over thinking it and getting strung up on what she said. its about acknowledging her feelings but still being yourself and living a life you want.
you should be learning these things for yourself instead of depending on the tips and tricks of others. i gave you a suggestion based upon what i would do. i put myself in your shoes. you have to ask why did i suggest these ideas? why did they work? if you can answer these questions yourself you have a better direction on where to go with her. even if it's in regards to hanging out with you as you're babysitting your brother.
you need to understand that you don't need to play games with a girl who is already attracted to you. you also need to understand that if she's attracted to you she won't give a flying fack about what you guys do. lastly you need to understand that only you can hold yourself back. i don't want to give you any suggestive tips for you to use and just spit at her because you're not listening to me when i say learn to read a woman's body language. you can only read her body language in person. in 1 on 1 face to face situations people find it harder to lie. if you're face to face with her you can also escalate at her pace when she's not running away from you. when you're face to face you can show her how you feel instead of telling her. why is all this important? because if you used my suggestion earlier it means you're acknowledging her emotional state in how you've recklessly only sought out your feelings and desires in a potential relationship. if you can't understand this then any other advice i give you won't help you in improving anything other than chances of you just getting a one night stand with her which--she might regret.
if you want to improve upon yourself you need to do some research within the pua community. there are resources within this forum. there are other resources in which some pua guru's are selling some stuff... and then there are some free seminars you can watch on youtube that help you understand attraction and how it begins with yourself. i will give you one quick shortcut to improving your self worth and that's to always make no apology for who you are and accept the responsibility.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.