I'm in a lot of confusion right now. lol
So there's this girl from my new job (I know, I know, I shouldn't poop where I eat but hear me out. haha). I've been wanting to game her for a long time (2 weeks).
I probably DLVed myself big time.
So every time we walk pass by each other, she would just look at me then look away and continue walking. She wouldn't even say hi. Or sometimes I'd say hi, and she'd say hi back but no smile at all.
There was this one time though I was looking through the glass window at the break room. And I saw her looking at me as she was walking (She was One floor below me.) So i looked at her, We stared at each other for a good 5 secs. I don;t remember who broke the eye contact
She's been there longer than I am (Obviously) So I've been asking her help lots of time. But it's like a really busy environment so we don't get to talk in a personal level.
She was all kind and shit to everybody but she always appear to me as a cold blooded person (Not really though. She's probably just shy) haha So I realized, hey I should game this girl, I'm not gonna lose anything.
But then the weird part:
Earlier today, I asked for her help to go look for something. And she was suppose to write the info but she lost her pen so I offered mine. Then she laughed. (no idea. Probably laughed at herself for being dumb)
Later that day. She was walking around being busy but I needed something from her again. So I followed her and ask her something. She said "You followed me all the way here?" and smiled.
I replied "Ofcourse!" then smile. ("OFCOURSE"?! WHAT THE fark? Should've gone with "Nah, I was looking for _______ but yeah, you'll do. Come on")
She laughed again. I felt like a slut, she could've F-closed me that exact moment. haha
I've never felt my value so low before lol. Funny part is I felt good about myself that I made this girl laugh.
But then I realized, She just GAMED the fark out of me without her even realizing it.
She Social proof, DHV, then finally validated me.
I want to know how do I get her off the pedestal, off my mind , and off everywhere. haha
Is there anyway I can turn this around? It's really hard to game at work because you have to be professional and playful at the same time. how does that even work?
Any advice, insight, correction, critic is accepted and welcomed. Have a good day gentlemen.