I am a beginner, mid 30s, Canadian living in Germany. Most women say that I am sexily good looking, but still all they want is friendship. Three long term relationships, that's all I have had. Got dumped every time, as I am Mr. Nice Guy. So completely new to this game. I have been trying Richard La Ruina and some tactics like the cube, strawberry fields etc, but always get LJBFed. My flat mates are players so I am reminded of my failure to score every night. Life is becoming hell.
Things don t seem to work. Last night there was a party and I opened an Italian girl with the female opinion (guy can t forget the old gf, keeps her pictures and letters on his Iphone) and she asked me if it was me, and then went about telling everyone about it. It did not go into a deep talk about relationships which is what the PUA literature says it should. Rather awful. Ran the cube on a girl, then strawberry fields, but still got LJBF. How do I get out of this stage. I am getting completely disillusioned and slowly beginning to think that some people have it, and I don t. Am losing faith in PUA and beginning to think it is all a scam aimed at men with no game like me. I don t want to go this path.