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Thread: Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

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    Default Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

    My confidence has been going up and down.I feel like im going through a dry spell with women and having sex. I also cant seem to get 9s and 10s. I fail with dating sites. I have been trying to work on my confidence and self esteem. A lot of times i feel that im not good enough for them.

    A lot of times i feel i dont know what to say to the girl either. Can i have some feedback and advice how can improve all those things. I am also new to pua and i like studying it.

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    Default Re: Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

    Hi man. First you have to fail to learn and change. See nobody here knows your week points and yourself. There is no 100% working matrix with women to share you and I thank God for that!!! Otherwise it would not be so much enjoyable. My advice: Do something, make some specific story and then ask for advace.

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    Default Re: Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

    I second the above.

    When you start doing things to enjoy yourself you'll start to have more options. The girls will be naturally attracted to a guy who is attracted to her... Women want to fight for the attention of a guy knowing that theyve earned it and have been chosen out of the other girls in his life. The 9s and 10s know the game well--the are typically socially experienced and can read a guy a mile away if he reaks of desperation and no confidence. People mirror emotions of people around them and often they want to be surrounded by a people who are positive, fun and enticing. If you base your game on personality you can and should still be able to land a HB10 if you werent her ideal guy if she fits the Psychotic personality type which is actively making decisins based on her emotions as the Bad guy personality that woos her by the risks and follow through to reassure her emotionally. There are other personality types out there but that gives you a base to look at things. Do more work on your inner game before you start trying lock down these 9s and 10s. Also read up on personality types found in both men and women if you want a specific route to go into--just remember though you still have to be yourself not just these personalities...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

    Quote Originally Posted by njguy23 View Post
    My confidence has been going up and down.I feel like im going through a dry spell with women and having sex. I also cant seem to get 9s and 10s. I fail with dating sites. I have been trying to work on my confidence and self esteem. A lot of times i feel that im not good enough for them.

    A lot of times i feel i dont know what to say to the girl either. Can i have some feedback and advice how can improve all those things. I am also new to pua and i like studying it.
    I think what could help your confidence is doing cold approaches. At least 3 a day. It can be platonic or you could hit on them. The point is to force you out of our comfort zone. And when you come to a point where you're talking to a girl and you can't think of anything to say, admit it. Show you're human. Be like "you know what, I don't do this very often and I don't know what to say. Don't you hate when that happens?..." You literally start a convo off of it. And you say it as you're laughing at it, like its a joke. Don't be like "I don't know what to say and I hate my life" type attitude.

    It's just all about having fun with each conversation. Everybody I know who is good with girls, whenever I see them they are always smiling with a great attitude and not taking life so seriously. Takes practice, but you'll get there. For now you just got to go take action. It's the only way you improve

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    Default Re: Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

    You're most likely too goal oriented / outcome dependent right now.
    Don't worry about "pick up" to start with; focus on becoming a more socially outward person.

    Work on your flirting skills & just start having fun.
    Make little silly comments to people... like the checkout lady at the store, or the waiter/waitress at the restaurant.

    Ask them something ridiculous, like: if their laundry folding skills are up to par, because tomorrow is laundry day & you're recruiting help.

    (That is gold, btw... )
    Nobody is gonna that seriously... they're gonna know you're making a little joke & it's gonna make people laugh.

    Or ask them if they know the words to some crazy song, like "Let it go" or "what does the fox say?" because you're thinking about auditioning for American Idol /X Factor / The Voice... etc & you need to learn the lyrics.

    You're not gonna start a full conversation with those "openers"... you're just bantering for a moment & setting the frame of having a fun interaction.

    Just do that for a while & you'll start losing your anxiety & start becoming more confident.



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    Default Re: Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

    Thank you all for the advice and support!

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    Default Re: Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    If you base your game on personality you can and should still be able to land a HB10 if you werent her ideal guy if she fits the Psychotic personality type which is actively making decisins based on her emotions as the Bad guy personality that woos her by the risks and follow through to reassure her emotionally. There are other personality types out there but that gives you a base to look at things. Do more work on your inner game before you start trying lock down these 9s and 10s. Also read up on personality types found in both men and women if you want a specific route to go into--just remember though you still have to be yourself not just these personalities...
    Where would one get more information on personality types and how to game them?

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    Default Re: Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

    Quote Originally Posted by daffyff View Post
    Where would one get more information on personality types and how to game them?

    My friends who have gotten into the "Pandora's Box" system, have raved about it. That apparently has exactly what you're asking about.

    I've never checked it out, so I can't vouch for it myself. But with a crap-load of positive reviews, I'd say it could be worth your while.

    I personally don't worry about trying to figure out a girl's personality type, to adjust my game to suit her needs though.

    I game ALL girls the same way in order to weed out the ones I'm not gonna be interested in; regardless of how "hot" they are.




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    Default Re: Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

    I was hoping more of an astrology type breakdown....i eat that stuff up

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    Default Re: Can i have tips and advice on how to improve my game please

    Quote Originally Posted by SCooper2031 View Post
    I think what could help your confidence is doing cold approaches. At least 3 a day. It can be platonic or you could hit on them. The point is to force you out of our comfort zone. For now you just got to go take action. It's the only way you improve
    I agree with this. One way I really improved when I was younger was simply talking with lots of women of all ages without neccessarily thinking about hooking up. I would charm old ladies at a grocery store, I would chat to a teenage girl painting a mural. I would chat to the best looking girls and even ugly girls. Approaching without any pressure of getting a date or number is suddenly not that hard to do and in many cases actually did lead to getting a date or number. Tourists have a lot of luck in this way, they are simply approaching to meet people, ask directions or find out about something that then leads somewhere else.

    I did this quite a lot with hot girls. I would go up and ask the hottest girls a question completely unrelated to picking them up 'Is this the england match on TV?', 'Hey I saw you just bought a dress from that shop, Im looking for a present for my mother blah blah blah', 'Do you know if there is a post office around here?'. It completely takes their guard away. The point was simply to spend so much time talking with women and especially good looking women that I was comfortable with it and the conversation.

    Quick approaches can work too. I have pulled many girls where I just went up and asked for their number but didn't chat much. That's usually working off the time constraint dynamic and you don't hang around long enough to say anything stupid. Ive done this especially when I truly am committed to a group of friends and can't really go sarging, if the target is difficult to isolate for long, if I am about to leave or even if Im simply tired and don't feel in a chatty mood.


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