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    Default \when do you start gaming someone who has LJBFed you again

    Hi,

    Sorry to ask so many questions but I am a complete newbie at this. There is this girl who I nearly kiss closed, she was rubbing my leg and everything else was positive, but I lost my nerve at the last min. A couple of days later she told me that she wanted a platonic relationship. I said, "DO you think I am easy to get,? and basically ignored her. Now she is inviting me to TV shows, beer, etc...went out once or twice, but ignored her a couple of times too.
    She was on my balcony last week, and she told me that she could not understand me, that I was sometimes very friendly, and sometimes ignored her. I said, "I like to be mysterious, and I don t have all the time in the world for you (neg). There was a lot of kino, eye contact etc, and kisses on the cheek. She has invited me for a play she is acting in tommorow, but I just don t want to be led on.
    What should I do?
    I promise to file field reports, but right now a F close with anyone seems way beyond. I hope I ll be doing that soon.

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    Default Re: \when do you start gaming someone who has LJBFed you again

    It's OK to express interest in a girl. In fact, you SHOULD.

    That doesn't mean your entire focus should be on her & you pine over her & praise her for everything she does... but if you DON'T express that you're interested in her (as more than just friends) you'll definitely end up in the friend zone.

    Start flirting.
    Be playful & tease / banter with her.

    There's no reason to neg a girl unless she's totally caught up in her own ego.
    Negs & freeze outs are waaaaaay overused at the wrong times (and too often) when guys are first learning.
    Then when things go wrong, they don't understand why.

    Fortunately, she's still expressing interest, so all is not lost.

    Again, start flirting.
    You need to build attraction in these early stages, and FUN is the ultimate attraction switch.


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    rogerpaul1234 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: \when do you start gaming someone who has LJBFed you again

    Just to update you on what I did.
    The play was important to her, but I could not make it. I send a message on facebook saying that I was sorry. Great move. She invited me out, and came on my balcony. Could have kiss closed, but miscalculated the moment.

    KEY LESSON If something is really important to her, make an attempt to be part of it. Don t ignore it.


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