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    Default Fixing it when you stuffing your text game up

    Hi guys,

    This has happened to me a few times and so I want to fix it with your help. A few times I have number closed a HB and then I have texted her. She has replied with a few days delay which to me it means either the attraction level is very low or she throws me a shit test. So I understand that when this happens my text must be better than ever. However, sometimes I reply on their text when I am busy with something else or when I am not in a good mood so my text does not look good enough to increase the attraction so obviously I don't get any further replies!

    For instance I number closed a French chick the other Friday and texted her in an hour. She replied on Tuesday (after a long weekend) and said that she was busy with her thesis.

    Then I asked her what was the thesis about and she said about "ethical management. After I finish this I don't want to hear about it again".

    My response was "Sounds interesting. I have a managerial job but no ethics ;-) Did you do anything exciting on the weekend? something like chocolate therapy or shopping?".

    After sending the text I said to myself that WTF was this text?! I could have simply said "Which part do not you want to hear about. the management or the ethics? ;-)".

    Anyway, how can I fix a crappy text and re-open in a way that I can encourage her to text back again?

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Fixing it when you stuffing your text game up

    Girls don't want to talk about work or school when they're not there.
    Those aren't "fun" topics.

    Instead of asking her a bunch of questions & forcing a reply, learn to make statements, comments, suggestions & assumptions... or tell a little something about YOUR day.

    Check my "list of magic texts" for a bunch of examples you can use to spark a fun interaction.
    Don't try to have a "conversation" over text. Save those for in person or "talking" on the phone at a later time.

    Try to keep texting light & fun; full of bantering & teasing.

    Most guys get flustered & over-excited when they're talking to a new girl & get all AFC on her.

    But she even told you she doesn't want to talk about the thesis... so that should be a cle that she's hoping you'll draw her attention away from that & lead the interaction to a more fun, upbeat place.


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    Default Re: Fixing it when you stuffing your text game up

    Thanks so much T-Mal

    Given that I have farked it up, how can I fix it?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Fixing it when you stuffing your text game up

    Basically, act like you're starting from scratch.
    Each new day is a whole new opportunity for subjects. You don't have to keep picking up where you left off.
    YOU can change the topic at any given moment.

    All you have to do, is DO it.


    Girls do that crap all the time. They're not gonna get bent out of shape if you switch gears too.


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