Re: Reflections after 1 year in the field
Yeah, i too get the feelin you're too goal oriented with ykur game. Remember the game isnt so much to get numbers, dates or close--its to improve your life. The only way you can fully do that is by reflecting as to who you are and being the best version of that. Sometimes it requires a lot of analytical self evaluation and in other times it requires you to get out of your head and have really have fun meeting new people you've never met.
There's a study on OkCupid that says about 80% of women find men on their site less than average in in looks. While thats being said there are many women who although have their standards in looks really like being challenged in regards to personality that makes a man more attractive. Think about it, although we would like amazing an HB10 with a crappy attitude we probably would still perfer to be with a HB7 with an amazing personality. Im saying standards are great to start but when you find something of great value to you youd be will to compromise. Ultimately women will too.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.