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Thread: Don't know how to respond

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    Default Don't know how to respond

    Was reading through this girls profile and she said she cried during the Red Wedding (Game of Thrones reference)

    So I decided to use an observational opener.

    Me: Crying during the Red Wedding is more than okay ha how's your day going?

    HB7: Pretty good, thanks.


    I have no idea how to respond to this lol
    Any ideas?

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    Default Re: Don't know how to respond

    yeah--don't interview her. your best bet is to try to get her to respond to a cock-funny cold read that reads as light hearted.

    because she made her reply short you pretty much have to reopen her again.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Don't know how to respond

    Think about what you're saying to her BEFORE you hit send & think of what she may reply with.
    Anytime you ask a girl how her day is going, they'll almost always answer like that.

    Get more creative. Make it more interesting... and don't be afraid to tease / flirt a little.

    And instead of sucking up to her by telling her it's OK to cry during the "Red Wedding", you could have said something like,
    "You cried during the red wedding? You're an even bigger dork than I am. How many tissues did you use to dry your eyes? Hope you recovered by now."

    It's a playful tease that would've gotten more of a reaction from her & she probably would have fired back a little playful jab at you.
    That's a good thing. It means she's buying into the flirty frame you're setting.



    It just takes practice. I sent the same sort of messages early on when I started out too, so don't beat yourself up... just keep learning. It gets easier the more you do it.


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    Default Re: Don't know how to respond

    yeah not everything is a complete failure or rejection--almost everything is a learning experience.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Don't know how to respond

    T-Mal's text game is fully Hodor-proof. Girls will definitely say more than the usual one word Hodor.


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