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Thread: When girls find out you've used 'Game' on them - aftermath

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    Default When girls find out you've used 'Game' on them - aftermath

    As the title says - I had one of those nights when you see game working in front of your eyes. I'm sure everyone would agree, it's pretty cool.

    But, I guess I went too far. She googled it and found out that I was blatantly gaming her (I know I messed up blah blah...). Needless to say, that had a bad effect on her.


    Long story short - I lost her. It definitely sucks. What do you guys have to say about this. Ever experienced it? What did you do afterwards? I think I speak for a lot of folks when I say that it would be nice to see the experts talk about this.

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    Default Re: When girls find out you've used 'Game' on them - aftermath

    Not so much actual 'game' as I don't follow routines much but definately many girls have been wary of me initially and described me as a 'playboy'. I usually say 'well yeah...if I'm not playing I would be the loser on the sideline...no one wants that do they?' (surely she does not). You could further qualify or re-inforce yourself along the lines of basic virtues 'I'm a confident smart guy, life's short - we all gotta play hard to get the best we deserve right?'. Or you could even put it straight back on her 'Touche...bright lipstick, too much perfume, hair done all nicely, sexy dress, wow even a push up bra I see....your playing the game well yourself, cheers!'. If directly called out you could argue it intellectually 'I have read things that help me understand women and help me understand myself better - thats not a bad thing' or 'Ive read some things that are probably very similar to what you read in your fashion magazines, did you want to compare notes? '. Brush it off with confidence and playfulness. No matter what conversation a women brings up, it is not going to bother you or steer you away from your goal. Use everything to your advantage. Pass every test. Pass every green light. It's often more about how you say something than what you say.

    This is why creativity and innovation are important. Use techniques and knowledge about women to your advantage but always be yourself deep down and don't make any excuses for it. Always be honest. Girls like playboys but perhaps not in such obvious ways. Remember it's all basic psychology and biological attraction deep down so you could turn any such 'game' accusation into a deep and meaningful conversation about pyschology. If you tried pandoras box on her and she looked it up, you can't really hide it but you can discuss it as psychology rather than 'pickup' (which has a stigma attached to it). We all want self improvement - it's ultimately a positive attractive virtue. In many instances women like to talk about all of this kind of dating stuff nor is pick up material exclusively written by men.

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    Default Re: When girls find out you've used 'Game' on them - aftermath

    I've been straight up with girls.
    I've told them that I'm a lifestyle coach & that I teach guys about social dynamics & relationship psychology.

    It's never been an issue. In fact, they've all found it quite interesting & more curious. That's a good thing.

    I agree with whitedragon... if you're using old, canned, scripted routines from "The Game" then yeah, girls CAN find out & be taken aback by it.

    That's why I recommend NOT using the same old rehashed stuff that a lot of guys use.

    Take the principles of those routines & create your own stuff.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: When girls find out you've used 'Game' on them - aftermath

    honestly i don't find anything PUA related to be that crazy or low grade enough to ruin anything. there are self help books out there without the PUA name for both men and women--on top of that there are health magazines that have tips for men and women on how to communicate with their mates or attracting them. you can just google anything and anything will come up. there isn't any shame to this stuff--its the internet as your finger tips.

    the only thing that's wrong is that they believe they've been tricked because you failed to show them that they made their own choices. its all about how you handle the situation even if you were being confronted by your target or their friends. even if that's the case theres nothing really wrong with it if your intent and follow through showed no actual harm if everyone's having fun. hopefully you didn't lie about it. but then again women are more prone to lying then men especially about their age.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: When girls find out you've used 'Game' on them - aftermath

    Use old lines too long, they're bound to catch up eventually. I advise being creative, and making you own lines, based on the same principles as T-Mal said.


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