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    Default number closed online. texted a few times then no response

    I am somewhat confused on why this girl is not texting me back. We had a good conversation online and I got her number so we could meet up sometime. I sent the first text the next day and we sent a few texts back and forth, but she hasnt responded back.

    Here is our whole thread:

    ME: Hey, its Ben!

    Her: Hiii

    ME: Hiii. lol

    her: Whats up

    Me: Work. You? Im guessing your working too?

    Her: Nope day off

    Me: Lucky. Im working til 330 am

    (no response for about 2 hours)

    Me: What does your schedule look like 2 saturdays from now?

    Her (immediate response): No idea lol

    Me: O ok

    (20 minutes later)

    Me: so do you live in (city) or just go to school there?

    (No response since)

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    Default Re: number closed online. texted a few times then no response

    She didn't respond becauseyour text game sucked BIG ELEPHANT BALLS and was boring. Got to T-Mal's guides of Texting Do's and Don'ts http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html
    and T-Mal's list of Magic Texts http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...gic-texts.html

    T-Mal is one of the best at the texting game and you can learn alot from him. And don't worry, all of us sucked when we first started

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    Default Re: number closed online. texted a few times then no response

    Ben, I'm gonna see if I can help a brotha out here.

    First of all, if you swapped numbers with a girl she already knows it's you when you text, because you'll be in her contact list...
    (There's no need to explain who you are.)

    Secondly, never mistake "having a good conversation" with building attraction. It's not the same thing. Conversations build rapport. And rapport before attraction is a fast track to the friend zone.

    Your short text exchange never did anything to hook her & make her want to meet with you.
    Don't be afraid to stop being "fluffy". Meaning scratch the "fluff talk"... (work, school, how was your day, what are you doing... etc)

    Be creative & tell her something, rather than asking her something.
    And LEAD the interaction... This text exchange was YOU waiting for HER to take over & lead the coversation & carry the interaction along. (Which obviously, never happened.) Women LOVE a man who can lead.

    Be fun & flirty for a bit BEFORE you try to meet up.
    When you express a fun vibe, girls are gonna want to get together, and you're less likely to face resistance.

    Example:
    After you've had some FUN text exchanges, and it's time to go for the meet up, ASSUME THE SALE.

    "Hey nerd ball, I need a co-pilot for my excursion to Joe's Pizza, you DO like pepperoni, right? Saturday at 6:04 PM! "

    Or

    "Buenas Dias mi amiga. I'm craving margaritas! Come roll with me this Friday. I know a place that has THE BEST in town. It won't disappoint! "

    Also- when it comes to messaging girls online, don't go for the usual fluff talk there either.
    Be fun!!

    Make small cold reads like "You seem to have a nice mix of class & sophistication... with a bit of nerdiness to go with it. We could totally be friends! At least, as long as you're pepperoni friendly... "

    I guarantee girls don't get messages like that very often... if at all.
    So you'll stand out from the rest of the tools on the site, who keep asking her the same lame stuff or making the same lame comments.

    Set yourself apart from everyone else.
    Don't be afraid to be a little over-the-top.

    Who cares where she works? Who gives a crap about her work or school? That's not what she wants to talk about. And it's not going to pique her interest at all.

    Instead, make comments (not ask a lot of questions) about random stuff.

    Tell her about something that happened to you...
    "OMG! Check this out! So, today I was walking through the store & I snagged my pants on a sharp corner of a counter. Rrrriiiiip!! And I was going commando! Let's just say I bailed as quickly as possible! Hope your day was less adventurous! "

    Or whatever...
    Just share a small tidbit about your own day. That will show a girl you're willing to drop your guard & be open with her... which will put her at ease, create comfort & get her to open up as well.



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    Default Re: number closed online. texted a few times then no response

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Ben, I'm gonna see if I can help a brotha out here.

    First of all, if you swapped numbers with a girl she already knows it's you when you text, because you'll be in her contact list...
    (There's no need to explain who you are.)

    Secondly, never mistake "having a good conversation" with building attraction. It's not the same thing. Conversations build rapport. And rapport before attraction is a fast track to the friend zone.

    Your short text exchange never did anything to hook her & make her want to meet with you.
    Don't be afraid to stop being "fluffy". Meaning scratch the "fluff talk"... (work, school, how was your day, what are you doing... etc)

    Be creative & tell her something, rather than asking her something.
    And LEAD the interaction... This text exchange was YOU waiting for HER to take over & lead the coversation & carry the interaction along. (Which obviously, never happened.) Women LOVE a man who can lead.

    Be fun & flirty for a bit BEFORE you try to meet up.
    When you express a fun vibe, girls are gonna want to get together, and you're less likely to face resistance.

    Example:
    After you've had some FUN text exchanges, and it's time to go for the meet up, ASSUME THE SALE.

    "Hey nerd ball, I need a co-pilot for my excursion to Joe's Pizza, you DO like pepperoni, right? Saturday at 6:04 PM! "



    "Buenas Dias mi amiga. I'm craving margaritas! Come roll with me this Friday. I know a place that has THE BEST in town. It won't disappoint! "

    Also- when it comes to messaging girls online, don't go for the usual fluff talk there either.
    Be fun!!

    Make small cold reads like "You seem to have a nice mix of class & sophistication... with a bit of nerdiness to go with it. We could totally be friends! At least, as long as you're pepperoni friendly... "

    I guarantee girls don't get messages like that very often... if at all.
    So you'll stand out from the rest of the tools on the site, who keep asking her the same lame stuff or making the same lame comments.

    Set yourself apart from everyone else.
    Don't be afraid to be a little over-the-top.

    Who cares where she works? Who gives a crap about her work or school? That's not what she wants to talk about. And it's not going to pique her interest at all.

    Instead, make comments (not ask a lot of questions) about random stuff.

    Tell her about something that happened to you...
    "OMG! Check this out! So, today I was walking through the store & I snagged my pants on a sharp corner of a counter. Rrrriiiiip!! And I was going commando! Let's just say I bailed as quickly as possible! Hope your day was less adventurous! "

    Or whatever...
    Just share a small tidbit about your own day. That will show a girl you're willing to drop your guard & be open with her... which will put her at ease, create comfort & get her to open up as well.

    Alright question, how do you build attraction if you haven't yet build comfort or rapport. I thought that would be bad. Usually I do rapport and comfort followed by sexual escalation.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: number closed online. texted a few times then no response

    Attraction first.
    Then rapport/comfort....
    Then seduction.

    Rapport without attraction = FRIENDS.

    Build attraction by flirting. (Teasing/bantering/playful interactions.)

    When you see guys who meet girls & start getting make-outs within minutes, it's because they rapidly build attraction first. They avoid the mundane fluff talk about work, school, musical tastes, etc.

    They're not looking for commonalities... they're flirting & making the girl have fun. FUN is the ultimate attraction switch. It's like a magnetic, subconscious reaction that girls feel.



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