Been with a girl for years. We had the best chemistry ever. It got to a point she would say she'd mary me and that I was the best guy for her.
One day, she realized that she had family issues. Her family foundation is really important for her and she thought she had the perfect family, however she started having issues with her parents who thought she was being distant from them (mostly due to her intense school program and partly because her free time well she would spend it with me and her friends rather than with family). This shook her extremely, and from one day to another, she decided to drop this relationship. She felt like she neglected her family.
Its been a month and a half now since that day. Ever since she wanted to remain friends, but we had some arguments that pushed us apart a little given that I had trouble to accept and understand this reality. It seemed odd to me that she would drop something we both loved so much to deal with her personal ''issues''. I came across as needy and did all types of mistakes also meanwhile. I was looking for confirmation, which she gave me, saying her feeling did not fade, but that she cannot commit to me right now as she needs to deal with her personal issues. She is also doing recruitment for a job and she says that everything going on in her life results that she has no time for a bf. That said she wanted to remain platonic also as it is against her value to eb intimate with a guy that isnt her bf, which made things awkward between us..
It literally happened from one day to another, a month and a half ago. And despite how great our relationship was, it seems like nothing will make her come back at it right now.
We are just on and off right now. Sometimes she opens her heart, sometimes we get into arguments as I think she is irrational to drop me off (I had trouble controllong myself, this really made no sense to me).
We had an argument yesterday, it ended up with her saying she needs a break from talking to me.. (we used to talk all the time and have a blast together). I agreed to this, although it is fairly hard.
I dont know what to do. This just seems like so much bs. But I love that girl beyond words.
Thanks for advising guys.