My sticking point is making a kiss close. Ignored a girl who had LJBFed me, three weeks later she invited me to a festival, and I said only if it is just the two of us. I then switched off my facebook. (FIRST MISTAKE) She replied "Yes, of course." I had switched off my computer and saw had not seen the last post. She then phoned me, invited me to have tea on her balcony. I said no, let us have wine on the balcony. So far so good, close sitting, legs touching, everything Then I lost the frame (SECOND MISTAKE). Asked her about her life, she began to show me photos of her theater play, trips to other countries etc....and since she had the laptop in her lap I could not make a move. She was nervous, I put her arm on her shoulder. She leaned in. I was a fool, did not make a move and anyway she had the laptop. (THIRD MISTAKE).
I should have made a move right when she came up. She was expecting it.
We talked about things, slowly kino went cold, and when I leaned to kiss her, she rejected me. I did not lose the frame, just laughed, leaned back and said, "Look, I lke you as a woman." "Cant we just be friends" "No, I said. I choose my friends, not they me." And then I ejected using World Cup as an excuse. She invited me to call her on facebook, I replied "You can call me...(THIRD MISTAKE, I think I put too much pressure). She did not call, I called later she said she wants some time for herself. She wants to think about it. what would be by next strategy.....please help. I plan to ignore her completely. Any idea if I have a chance?