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    Default Girl agrees to second date, unresponsive the next day..

    I'll try to keep this short and sweet..I met this chick several weeks ago and after texting for a while we agreed to go on a date...everything went well ( she was laughing and being flirty the entire time, we made out a couple of time, etc).. The problem was that after that date she seemed a bit distant...not responding to texts if I texted 2 days in a row...(however if I waited a few days between texts/calls she would respond, I don't think I was being needy but who knows)...anyways, I called her over the weekend and she called back within 5 minutes, was flirty laughing etc again so I asked her out for a second date . She agreed and said she was excited and looking forward to it ... I told her I would reserve the date the next day and call her with the details.....the next day I reserved our spots but when I tried to call her she ghosted me. No answer, no callback, no text . Any ideas why? Maybe she's talking to multiple dudes? Using me for attention? How should I proceed? Since this isn't the first time. She's ghosted me I would love to call her on her shit but I know that's not the best idea.

    Sorry for typos.. It's 6am and I'm on an iPhone

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    Default Re: Girl agrees to second date, unresponsive the next day..

    she says she's excited right? just treat it like its no big deal then. think of yourself as the catch since she's stated she's interested too. don't worry about her responding so fast. she's already agreed to it. she could be busy--you probably should be too. let her forget about you for a few days so she can feel bad about not responding to you sooner. as long as you're not ignoring her you're doing good. if she doesn't hit you up in the next 24 hours--give her a call instead of a text. the more you change up your routine the more she'll be on her toes around you instead of just replying to text messages every day / week.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Girl agrees to second date, unresponsive the next day..

    Artandale,

    Thanks for the response. I sent her a text this morning with the details, maybe premature but I need to cancel the reservations if she's gonna bail. No response still. Would you still keep call her in a few days or just take a hint and move on?

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    Default Re: Girl agrees to second date, unresponsive the next day..

    Save reservations and dates that are more expensive than $15 a person for a person you're in a real relationship with. Think about it... Is she worth that much in investing? What did she do to deserve your attention? Just because she went out with you on e and said yes to another date doesnt mean shes committed. Give yourself some self worth
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Girl agrees to second date, unresponsive the next day..

    Well I heard from her out of the blue the next night. She apologized and said she was reading my text at work and got caught by her boss and then forgot to reply later....the following day I sent her a message that said it was no big deal. Now I have to heard from her again, and I'm left wondering if we are still on for tomorrow. She agreed to go on the date last weekend but hasn't really given much interaction this week. Should I call her tonight and try to confirm or just move on?

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    Default Re: Girl agrees to second date, unresponsive the next day..

    i used to make the mistake of saying it's no big deal--but lets be real here--you made it a big deal. you made reservations. how often do you make reservations for someone? someone you barely know?

    honestly in my opinion of what you should do is focus less on confirming a date--more about just shooting banter with her so you'll have comfort--and break rapport often to be flirty... keep doing this so it makes her want to meet you up in person and then she'll start confirming more often and become more committed to you.. lets face it... at the end of the day she's not thinking about you--because if she was she'd send you a text or call you sometime between 6pm to 12pm at night because she's attracted to you.

    right now you both have agreed to another date or whatever--let that be some weird goal that you forgot about and make it all about having too much fun getting to know her via text / phone calls and tease her.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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