Alright so I have what seems to me to be an interesting delimah. As my name states, I'm a bitof a perfectionist. I like to have order Iin certain aspects in my life, generally in conceptual things to allow me to follow my path easily along contraints. I can't seem to figure out to go about that in this field.
I know my strengths, my issues, and I know my potential so here it is.
I got overwhelming confidence (in any other aspect of my life), I know I'm attractive idk how much so, and when I have no interest in a girl I come off as charming and flirtatious. But as soon as I try to turn on the charm purposely, my conversational skills hit the fa, shredded to be replaced by a tinge of awkwardness when I can't think of what to say.
Thusly I am here, to beat my weakness and maximize my potential game.
My question is, how should I go about this? What takes priority as skills to master when approaching women. conversational skills, lines, judgement of where you are/the hb is, patters, etc. what should be my focus and what seems like the best route to take from there. Obviously I know that every individual's experience is different, but a general guide(s)would be helpfull and very much appreciated.
Thank you in advance for taking the time on this post. glad to be here and can't want to reallybe a true PUA.