I met this woman on a dating app and we hit it off well and kept things light and flirty and went on a date Monday after a week of text. I felt the date went well and we both had a good time. We went out for coffee and a walk downtown for a few hours and talked about a second date later this week as a possibility. She didn't send a text after but later I messages her about it being good we got to get out and enjoy the good weather before the storm that came through. She didn't respond so to me I saw it as a red flag and waited until this morning to call her and set up a second date. She answered and had a little small talk before her mom called and said she needed to take the call. These are the texts that followed....
HER: Sorry about that. Needed to catch up on a few things
ME: I think that's really awesome you're close with your family
HER: Yeah I am super close with them. My grand parents and a cousin are coming on town so she was giving me the dates
ME: You don't see that a lot anymore! It's a good thing that you and I share those values
HER: Yeah it is becoming more rare
ME: When would it be a good time for me to call you up?
HER: Idk. I am busy taking care of a few things before work
ME: Well I know that :P that wasn't the question
HER: Haha well to be honest I should let you know I am not sure if this is going to go much farther. I wanted a spark to be there but there just wasn't
ME: Well you are a perfectionist Just stop trying so hard and relax. It's dating, not a final in Chem
i wasn't even able to bring up our second date plans. Is this a test or salvageable? The only thing I can think that would cause this is that there wasn't any real kino during our date. We hugged at first and I would lightly touch her throughout but holding hands didn't occur. Looking back I would have definitely went for it but I didn't want her to be uncomfortable.
Should I just call her again anyway in a day or two? I don't want to make date plans over text.