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    Default One night stand - when there is no tomorrow...

    I love bikes, love to travel (next weekend I'm in Quebec City and after that Toronto, Boston, NYC...) and there is always potential to meet someone who is willing to go in bed with you, but usualy it takes few times, at least for a "normal" date... And for one night stand I'm not sure I can call it a regular date... Never tried, but believe dynamic is much different and everything is sped up. Usualy, when you meet a girl, your goal is to get her number, after that to meet her for a first date and so on, but when you travel and meet someone in a bar, you don't have a time for all that bs because there is no tomorrow...

    How to proceed? You see a girl you like and you would like to go in bed with her, you go to her and tell her "Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?" ("Do you want to sleep with me?" in French ) ? Don't think so... But how do you bring her to your hotel room?

    Thanks in advance, artists ! You are awsome, can learn a lot from you and I realy love this forum!

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    Default Re: One night stand - when there is no tomorrow...

    Hahah ...you don't need to speak french to get one night stand. All of mine ONS happend in bars at night. And all of them started with kissing and sexual touches before we leave. I tell them that we must go somwhere else; in my place in her or in hotel it depends. If she agree then it is going to happen if she resist don't try to press her with things like " I'm leaving tomorrow so decide Yes or No. " Don't let her decide there is big chance of saying No. Acting like man who is not suppose to "play with" may lead to staying alone. And your swollen balls will curse your cocky self-esteem. So if she resist tell her something like "Ok just drinks and kises no sex" and latter that can quickly be changed when she is already alone in bed with you Good luck and enjoy! You are going to love the feeling when you wake up and leave either the place and the girl that you probably will never see again. Don't try to left contacts: phone number, facebook or else just enjoy the moment it is uncomparable manly feeling.

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    Default Re: One night stand - when there is no tomorrow...

    Ivo, благодаря, haha ! Your advice is worth of gold... Yes, I'll try it asap.

    P.S. I am not Bulgarian, but I know littlebit of Macedonian language and they are similar, aren't they?

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    Default Re: One night stand - when there is no tomorrow...

    Theres many ways to go about it, search around on the forums. To be basic, there's 5 stages: open, comfort, rapport, escalation, close.

    Open: Start talking to her at the bar or wherever, whether its an open question you have about the city your in or something you noticed about her, in some peoples opinion it doesnt really matter.

    Comfort: Get to know her, and her to know you. Establish your self with some DHV's and jokes, keeping interesting/ entertaining conversation, but also about her.

    Rapport: Basically start talking about subjects on a deeper level, feelings and goals and that type of thing. You need to create a connection, an spark.

    Escalation: Now your using Kino, innuendos, and that type of jazz to work towards making out, which is the close. Keep escalating if she's into it by bringing her back to your place, secluding her, or even in the alley if your ballsy like Rooster.

    You have to read around the forums, but thats essentially the jist of it.
    It's not a task, its a pleasure. Enjoyment reached from strengthening the foundation, not a new coat of paint.

    Oh, and getting laid is pretty farking awesome too!

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    Default Re: One night stand - when there is no tomorrow...

    Hey, Sleath5, thanks, men ! After I responded to Ivo, I realised I've got only half of my answer: what do you do at the very end, but what to do at the beggining and in the middle?! You gave me the answer on that. Reading is not a problem, I love to read, but finding is...As I said, ONS is different dynamic than regular date and I didn't know how it works. Now is time to practice ...

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    Default Re: One night stand - when there is no tomorrow...

    One night stands are easy! I don't do them anymore because the sex sucks compared to sex with a girl you've banged multiple times. I'm going to try and explain how I do it but I'm not entirely sure of the whole process. It just comes naturally for me. I've had approximately 20-25 ONS in the last 9 years, so that should give you an idea how easy it really is.

    First things first, all of my ONS (besides one) involved alcohol. They happened either at a party or a bar/show/wedding (The exception being a girl I met in a hotel lobby). It can easily happen outside of these situations but I haven't experienced it.

    The first thing you have to realize is that girls LOVE sex. They are super horny too but society puts allot of pressure on them to be "good girls". Because of this pressure guys think that girls don't like sex or aren't as horny as they really are. That's hogwash. I would argue that women like sex even more than men. Internalize this because it will make you more confident, and because it's true.

    After internalizing the above statement, realize that women are under enormous pressure to NOT look like sluts...even though they are. If you're vibing with a girl and her friends are around you need to try and isolate her, because if her friends can see you she won't do as much as she wants.

    Be aware that it can happen very fast if you have the right moves. I once banged a girl 15 minutes after I got to the party, in the keg room. Things can happen SUPER fast, you just need to have the balls to escalate.

    The first move is making out with her. After that you're in the door. All you have to do after that is make her horny enough to go home with you. That's it. I don't have enough time to explain in detail how to do this but lucky for you I already have in a previous post. Look for The Guide: Blasting through LMR in the how to seduce a girl forum. Cheers!

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    Default Re: One night stand - when there is no tomorrow...

    DirectlsBest, your guide is pure gold to me ! Thanks for sharing your experience with us. Yes, I know womens like sex and yes, I know they are under pressure not to look as a sluts, but knowing is not enough: applying that knowledge rigt way is a key. I need that second, but I am konfident it will come with time...

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    Default Re: One night stand - when there is no tomorrow...

    Sleath5, first I didn't understand what do you mean with "if you are ballsy like Rooster", just found his posts (guy called Rooster) and omg! I was laughing like never in my life ! It bringed me some memories, when I was in puberty, 14-15 and imagined how sex works... I had lots of stories like that, too ...


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