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Thread: If a woman decides in the first 30 secs, how does PUA work?

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    Default If a woman decides in the first 30 secs, how does PUA work?

    Hi,

    Rather discouraged with my attempts at PUA. Two LBJF, two number closes with no replies, back to zero.
    I read somewhere that a woman decides if she will sleep with you or not in the first 30 seconds of meeting you, and if so, how can PUA work?

    Please help. If someone really went from AFC (completely useless,three long term relations in a decade) to PUA, I d be very encouraged. Right now it seems hopeless.

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    Default Re: If a woman decides in the first 30 secs, how does PUA work?

    Rather discouraged with my attempts at PUA. Two LBJF, two number closes with no replies, back to zero.
    listen bud, it takes a lot more than 4 attempts to get it right.

    hell, I've approached thousands of women, I still don't always get it right.

    you can't just make 4 approaches, and expect it to be life changing.


    I read somewhere that a woman decides if she will sleep with you or not in the first 30 seconds of meeting you
    ah, this is only partially true. this statement should actually be:
    "a woman will decide if she wants to keep talking to you within the first thirty seconds"

    that window is just the time limit to hook her into a conversation. I would say that it takes longer than that for a woman to decide if she wants you (that is, unless your extremely good looking, famous or wealthy)

    most of the time woman have to talk to you for at least a few minutes to really decide, and they are always prone to change their mind after deciding weather your attractive or not.

    Please help. If someone really went from AFC (completely useless,three long term relations in a decade) to PUA, I d be very encouraged. Right now it seems hopeless.
    your in luck, I was a complete afc at one point, and as a matter of fact I was a hopeless virgin before I discovered pua. I got my first f-close at 18 years old (several months after discovering pua)
    I am now 20 years old and I've had sex 17 times since then.

    if your willing to put in the work, pua is well worth it.

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    Default Re: If a woman decides in the first 30 secs, how does PUA work?

    "The first 30 seconds" is incorrect. That's a myth / old saying, and it's totally inaccurate.

    However; You can blow your chances in the first 30 seconds though, by being the typical schmuck like most guys are.

    I'm almost 44 years old. Divorced twice & have 4 kids.

    Back when I was playing drums in a rock band, I had social proof... but now I'm just an "older guy with short hair".

    I crashed & burned at first when I started studying this stuff. It was ugly! LOL! But I knew there had to be SOME reason why certain guys were successful with women.

    So, a couple years later & LOTS of interactions, I can honestly tell you that the principles behind PUA techniques DO WORK.

    When you understand the psychological process that happens during the phases of attraction/rapport & seduction, you can use that knowledge to improve.

    It all starts with YOU though.
    You have to transform yourself into the best version of you that you can.

    There's no one, single "trick" or technique, or magic line that will make a girl drop her pants. That's what most people assume when they first hear about "Pickup".
    They think that guys have a magic pickup line to make girls melt... or that guys have to lie about themselves.. etc.

    That's not the case.

    The fact is, it takes work, patience & consistent effort to improve yourself. You have to be honest with yourself about your REAL strengths & weaknesses, and learn how to correct bad habits.

    It requires a guy to become social & confident.

    I approached hundreds of girls once I started. at first I struck out, so I adjusted my approach & tried again.
    I kept track of what worked & what didn't work, and started streamlining my style.

    Pretty soon I started seeing results. (within a couple weeks).
    Then I kept making adjustments & fine-tuning things more & more to fit my own personality.

    The key component was having FUN.

    It's not as mysterious or difficult as we think it is when we first begin learning.
    You just have to realize that you're NOT gonna get EVERY girl.

    So far, you've learned a few things that didn't work the way you wanted them to... so change your strategy & learn from that.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.


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