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    Default Girl who LJBFed twice wants me to attend her theatre premiere

    Hi,

    There is this girl who has LJBFed me twice.
    However, there were two instances when I could have easily kiss closed, but did not make the move as I lost my nerve. Sequence is k close chance LJBF k close chance LJBF
    She personally invited me to her theater premiere and I know that this is very important to her.
    Should I go? I need to confirm by Sunday

    Please help

    Cheers
    Roger

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    Default Re: Girl who LJBFed twice wants me to attend her theatre premiere

    is it important enough to hurt her feelings if you don't show up or go? ask yourself the important questions here... you need to look at at your situation and see if it's valid enough to continue to invest. i don't know your situation in regards to the girl enough to say anything about it... but what i will say is that if she's friend zoned you twice you have 2 options--be a friend, or find another girl to get yourself interested in. you need to decide what you want here. make your choice.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Girl who LJBFed twice wants me to attend her theatre premiere

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    is it important enough to hurt her feelings if you don't show up or go? ask yourself the important questions here... you need to look at at your situation and see if it's valid enough to continue to invest. i don't know your situation in regards to the girl enough to say anything about it... but what i will say is that if she's friend zoned you twice you have 2 options--be a friend, or find another girl to get yourself interested in. you need to decide what you want here. make your choice.
    Yes, she would be hurt.
    That's the only reason I d like to go.
    I don t want to look like a sore loser

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    Default Re: Girl who LJBFed twice wants me to attend her theatre premiere

    Do you want to be her friend? If so go... If you want to see other women because shes friendzoning you then dont go. But if you want to still game her--best of luck--try Kyle's guide to slaying the friend zone--ill find the link to share later
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Girl who LJBFed twice wants me to attend her theatre premiere

    Here's something crazy..

    How about you go, bring a friend, & have a great time.

    Or go, bring a girl, & have a great time with her.

    Or.. Something even crazier...

    You actually keep her around as a friend, because good friends are hard to find, especially girls who actually care about you, & you find another girl.

    Life is too short to worry about things like why a girl doesn't like you.

    I have no idea as to why you're "friend zoned" seeing as how there's not enough information in the post. Usually getting "friend zoned" is because there's no attraction.

    You're not an attractive dude. Or you're a wuss. That's the honest truth.

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    Default Re: Girl who LJBFed twice wants me to attend her theatre premiere

    What's it about? Go if you think it will be fun. Go if you're interested. Don't go if it's just for the girl.

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    Default Re: Girl who LJBFed twice wants me to attend her theatre premiere

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Do you want to be her friend? If so go... If you want to see other women because shes friendzoning you then dont go. But if you want to still game her--best of luck--try Kyle's guide to slaying the friend zone--ill find the link to share later
    Where can I find that guide?

    Also, if it means a lot to her, then I think she would appreciate you showing up. I don't see anything wrong with having a girl who is just a friend. In a lot of relationships, dating can start from friendship. You could grow on her. Of course, I am not an expert, and could not be knowing what I am talking about.

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    Default Re: Girl who LJBFed twice wants me to attend her theatre premiere

    Quote Originally Posted by Kyl3 View Post
    Here's something crazy..

    How about you go, bring a friend, & have a great time.

    Or go, bring a girl, & have a great time with her.

    Or.. Something even crazier...

    You actually keep her around as a friend, because good friends are hard to find, especially girls who actually care about you, & you find another girl.

    Life is too short to worry about things like why a girl doesn't like you.

    I have no idea as to why you're "friend zoned" seeing as how there's not enough information in the post. Usually getting "friend zoned" is because there's no attraction.

    You're not an attractive dude. Or you're a wuss. That's the honest truth.
    Girls call me sexy, I have a great sense of humor, I am handsome and well built, and very smart. what I don t have is game. I always come across as Mr. Nice Guy and get friendzoned.

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    Default Re: Girl who LJBFed twice wants me to attend her theatre premiere

    It has nothing to do with you being nice. Being genuinely nice is not unattractive. It's actually awesome. Genuinely nice people are soooo rare, & they always end up with an amazing high paying job, & a banging wife.

    In my experience, & I've wrote an entire thread on it before, titled "How to slay the friend zone" there is no such thing as the friend zone. Just a lack of attraction on her part, or no attraction, or she's dying for you to make a move & she's scared to let you know how she feels. In that case, you should just make out with her already man.

    The more you get to know somebody, the more you see the person, the more you interact with the person, the more attractive they become. It's an actual psychological principle. It's called the "Mere-exposure effect" but that's getting into social psychology & influencing people which I don't want to talk too much about.

    It's when you're "nice" that you get "friend zoned.

    AKA you're not a genuinely nice guy. You're a nice guy to woman because you think they'll like you for it, which they won't. If you act nice just to try to get laid, girls, people, see right through that & know you're not a very nice guy. There's nothing nice about guys who act nice to get what they want, which is a certain girl.
    It's manipulative, in the worst way, because it never works out for the guy, unless the girl is also just as manipulative?

    "Nice" guys put girls on pedestals that they can't come down from. They'll do anything for a girl to like him or approve of him. They supplicate to her every whim, & do whatever she wants. They compliment her when she doesn't deserve it, do things for her that she can do it on her own, buy her things & EXPECT things from her in return, are attention seeking, insecure, make there lives revolve around pleasing her, never defend themselves or stand up for themselves, are walked on, taken advantage of, never draw boundaries & let her know what's acceptable & what's not, CALL HER & TEXT HER AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE about boring shit she's going to find annoying. They don't flirt with her, they don't tease her because that's not nice, they don't give her a little space to miss them, they NEVER MAKE THERE HONEST INTENTIONS KNOWN. & THE WORST PART OF ALL, if the girl doesn't find them attractive after doing all this for her, they cry & whine about how girls only date bad boys or jerks, & how she's stupid for not liking them because they'd treat her soooo good. Which isn't the case at all. Ask yourself, if you were a girl, would you find a guy like that attractive in the least bit^

    No you wouldn't.

    That's why "bad boys" & "jerks" or "Dbags" get the girl. It's not because girls like them, it's because they're real men, they're guys who don't need the approval of anybody, especially some stupid girl that's probably boring to begin. They go after what they want, relentlessly, they live there own lives, they're most of the time (can't speak for everybody) completely honest with what they want, or how they feel about the girl, STRAIGHT TO THE GIRLS FACE, they tease her, they just have fucking balls.

    That's why those kind of guys don't get friend zoned or whatever the fuck you wanna call that stupid excuse.

    & yes, I'm one of those (Dbags) & girls find me incredibly charming.

    Genuinely nice, fun, confident, guys get laid often. Not only do they slay pu55y when done right, they get laid by girls that actually matter. Genuinely nice, fun, girls.
    You attract what you reflect.

    Shitty girls usually end up with even shittier guys.

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    Default Re: Girl who LJBFed twice wants me to attend her theatre premiere

    Quote Originally Posted by Kyl3 View Post
    It has nothing to do with you being nice. Being genuinely nice is not unattractive. It's actually awesome. Genuinely nice people are soooo rare, & they always end up with an amazing high paying job, & a banging wife.

    In my experience, & I've wrote an entire thread on it before, titled "How to slay the friend zone" there is no such thing as the friend zone. Just a lack of attraction on her part, or no attraction, or she's dying for you to make a move & she's scared to let you know how she feels. In that case, you should just make out with her already man.

    The more you get to know somebody, the more you see the person, the more you interact with the person, the more attractive they become. It's an actual psychological principle. It's called the "Mere-exposure effect" but that's getting into social psychology & influencing people which I don't want to talk too much about.

    It's when you're "nice" that you get "friend zoned.

    AKA you're not a genuinely nice guy. You're a nice guy to woman because you think they'll like you for it, which they won't. If you act nice just to try to get laid, girls, people, see right through that & know you're not a very nice guy. There's nothing nice about guys who act nice to get what they want, which is a certain girl.
    It's manipulative, in the worst way, because it never works out for the guy, unless the girl is also just as manipulative?

    "Nice" guys put girls on pedestals that they can't come down from. They'll do anything for a girl to like him or approve of him. They supplicate to her every whim, & do whatever she wants. They compliment her when she doesn't deserve it, do things for her that she can do it on her own, buy her things & EXPECT things from her in return, are attention seeking, insecure, make there lives revolve around pleasing her, never defend themselves or stand up for themselves, are walked on, taken advantage of, never draw boundaries & let her know what's acceptable & what's not, CALL HER & TEXT HER AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE about boring shit she's going to find annoying. They don't flirt with her, they don't tease her because that's not nice, they don't give her a little space to miss them, they NEVER MAKE THERE HONEST INTENTIONS KNOWN. & THE WORST PART OF ALL, if the girl doesn't find them attractive after doing all this for her, they cry & whine about how girls only date bad boys or jerks, & how she's stupid for not liking them because they'd treat her soooo good. Which isn't the case at all. Ask yourself, if you were a girl, would you find a guy like that attractive in the least bit^

    No you wouldn't.

    That's why "bad boys" & "jerks" or "Dbags" get the girl. It's not because girls like them, it's because they're real men, they're guys who don't need the approval of anybody, especially some stupid girl that's probably boring to begin. They go after what they want, relentlessly, they live there own lives, they're most of the time (can't speak for everybody) completely honest with what they want, or how they feel about the girl, STRAIGHT TO THE GIRLS FACE, they tease her, they just have farking balls.

    That's why those kind of guys don't get friend zoned or whatever the fark you wanna call that stupid excuse.

    & yes, I'm one of those (Dbags) & girls find me incredibly charming.

    Genuinely nice, fun, confident, guys get laid often. Not only do they slay pu55y when done right, they get laid by girls that actually matter. Genuinely nice, fun, girls.
    You attract what you reflect.

    Shitty girls usually end up with even shittier guys.
    First of all you say that I am not genuinely nice, and then you go to define the characteristics of that kind of nice guy. No, I am not your type of "nice guy". I just don t know how to create a sexual vibe.
    I think you will find that most nice guys who are friend zoned do not fit the description of the mythical "not so nice guy" you describe. Most of the "nice guys" I know are super smart, have a great sense of humor, and have a great sense of empathy. I have never done anything for a woman hoping she will jump into bed with me.
    In fact, your description is so similar to the one girls create to explain why they reject someone, but it is a mythical strawman.
    Some of us just do not, for a variety or reasons ranging from the lack of positive male models in our lives, or coming from single mother households to the over feminized discourse of public education, know how to attract women.

    Any help in this regard, rather than self praise and pointless criticism, will be welcome.


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