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Thread: Ex's bestfriend any suggestions?

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    Default Ex's bestfriend any suggestions?

    Hey guys,

    I was in the field last night have to say I did well for being out of it for awhile. Anyway my ex's bestfriend saw me gaming other girls came over and said "You treated (exs name) horrible." now of course this is bs to me as I treated her really well and I ended it 3 weeks ago due to becoming beta and going crazy now that I have eliminated that behavior. I have regained my alpha behavior

    Anyway 2 hours later my ex's bestfriend came up to me again and goes "Whatever I said earlier doesn't mean anything." then asked me if I missed her and I told her no cause I honestly don't care about her anymore.

    But if my ex was to try get in contact with me again I have the idea that I should proceed to ignore or blank her as the best option as she was nothing but trouble from the start. Unfortunately I didn't realize this till after getting in a relationship with her. I have moved on from my ex and have been happy that I broke it off I know that might seem harsh but it wasn't doing either of us favors.

    But I have the idea that her best friend texted her saying I was out gaming other girls and to me it obviously leads up to why she asked me if I missed my ex. Maybe this is just me curious but then again I maybe right or wrong.....

    As usual I appericate every suggestion to my questions thanks for reading
    Last edited by kylemc; 06-20-2014 at 07:02 PM. Reason: adding more info
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    Default Re: Ex's bestfriend any suggestions?

    Just ignore and continue gaming. If she tries to get in contact with you tell her the truth.

    "I don't want to be with you" bam! next!

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    Default Re: Ex's bestfriend any suggestions?

    I think im stupid or something... So is your ex's best friend trying to hook up with you? Or trying to spy on your for your ex? If shes trying to spy on you tell her to suck a fat one because you've moved on. If shes being nice to you and just wants to be friend--cool treat her like any friend. If shes trying to hook up with you and you dont care about your ex's feelings bone her and have fun--your ex is out of the picture. It really depends on what you're trying to improve here. If this friend isnt acting upon her own individuality and is trying to shame you in anyway don't take it--she's trying to break you apart so she can get what she wanta regardless of your thoughts and feelings

    Simple solution is to decide on what you want and follow through with the act.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Ex's bestfriend any suggestions?

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    I think im stupid or something... So is your ex's best friend trying to hook up with you? Or trying to spy on your for your ex? If shes trying to spy on you tell her to suck a fat one because you've moved on. If shes being nice to you and just wants to be friend--cool treat her like any friend. If shes trying to hook up with you and you dont care about your ex's feelings bone her and have fun--your ex is out of the picture. It really depends on what you're trying to improve here. If this friend isnt acting upon her own individuality and is trying to shame you in anyway don't take it--she's trying to break you apart so she can get what she wanta regardless of your thoughts and feelings

    Simple solution is to decide on what you want and follow through with the act.
    No man its how I wrote it on this I was out gaming the other night and my ex's bestfriend saw me, came up and said the two things then to me being curious came up with the idea that she texted my ex saying im out gaming girls now that mightn't be the case but then again I have always though her bestfriend was a b*tch.
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    Default Re: Ex's bestfriend any suggestions?

    I dont really understand what you wrote.. It doesnt read as if you know what you want or if you're only worries about your ex's thoughts about you hooking up with her bff. Regardless you have to make a decision on what you want and how its going to effect you
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Ex's bestfriend any suggestions?

    Hey guys,

    I was in the field last night have to say I did well for being out of it for awhile. Anyway my ex's bestfriend saw me gaming other girls came over and said "You treated (exs name) horrible." now of course this is bs to me as I treated her really well and I ended it 3 weeks ago due to becoming beta and going crazy now that I have eliminated that behavior. I have regained my alpha behavior

    Anyway 2 hours later my ex's bestfriend came up to me again and goes "Whatever I said earlier doesn't mean anything." then asked me if I missed her and I told her no cause I honestly don't care about her anymore.

    But if my ex was to try get in contact with me again I have the idea that I should proceed to ignore or blank her as the best option as she was nothing but trouble from the start. Unfortunately I didn't realize this till after getting in a relationship with her. I have moved on from my ex and have been happy that I broke it off I know that might seem harsh but it wasn't doing either of us favors.

    But I have the idea that her best friend texted her saying I was out gaming other girls and to me it obviously leads up to why she asked me if I missed my ex. Maybe this is just me curious but then again I maybe right or wrong.....

    As usual I appericate every suggestion to my questions thanks for reading
    my best advice is to ignore your ex, and ignore her bestfriend.

    the ex's besty was probably trying to cockblock you when she said that bs about how horrible you were to the ex.

    btw, don't bother gaming the ex's besty, that will only end badly lol reminds me of the time I tried to get with an ex's sister. needless to say the sister tried f*ing with my emotions to get back at me for breaking it off with the ex.

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    Default Re: Ex's bestfriend any suggestions?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    my best advice is to ignore your ex, and ignore her bestfriend.

    the ex's besty was probably trying to cockblock you when she said that bs about how horrible you were to the ex.

    btw, don't bother gaming the ex's besty, that will only end badly lol reminds me of the time I tried to get with an ex's sister. needless to say the sister tried f*ing with my emotions to get back at me for breaking it off with the ex.
    LOL yeah I have decided that ill just ignore her if she does try but I have no intention of trying to go for her best friend like you said it wont end well.
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