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    Default Is being called buddy a shit test?

    Is being called "buddy" by a girl a sh!t test or an introductory section of the friendzone?

    Her: Hey buddy!
    Me: Hey! (grabs her hand and spins her)

    Probably built too much comfort?

    Day before:

    Me: Hey sign this.
    Her: I need a pen.
    Me: ugh! gosh! Alright here you go! (As she reaches towards the pen I dropped it in the table then smiled)
    Her: Okayy.... I thought you were nice.
    Me: I AM NICE! Sometimes.
    Her: Okay. here you go. (Leaves)
    Me: What?! No thank you?
    Her: Thaaannkkk youuuuuuuu.


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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    It doesn't seem like a shit test... I just don't think you've built enough attraction to get her interest off of that alone.

    You're being playful, so keep it up. But it's gonna take more.


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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    I've always thought that a girl calling you things like that is not a good thing. Imo, its better for her to call you a dick or asshole than it is to be called Buddy, Bro, or Hun.

    If she does that again, I would respond by calling her a nickname of your own. For instance

    "Hey buddy!"
    "Whats going on, cupcake?"

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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    You can totally take the lead & turn things around on her.
    Yeah, calling her cupcake, or pal, or nerd, or dork, or goofball... anything like that will keep momentum going.
    (Just over-exaggerate the name)


    Anytime a girl calls you a nickname, it's a good sign.
    But pay attention to the situation.

    Meaning, her body language & vocal tonality, as well as the reason she calls you a name of some sort.


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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    You're being playful, so keep it up. But it's gonna take more.
    What do you mean by 'more'?


    Quote Originally Posted by Carter21 View Post
    its better for her to call you a d1ck or asshole than it is to be called Buddy, Bro, or Hun.
    Totally agree with you. I actually take pride when a girl calls me jerk/ asshole.

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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    It's gonna take more playful interactions to build attraction.
    You're actually off to a decent start, but as of right now, she's not hooked.

    Just keep flirting with her & teasing/bantering.

    Being called jerk or asshole CAN be ok... but you have to know how to keep from being the arrogant douchebag & how to use it to your advantage.


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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    T is there a reason why she's always acting positively to me? 95% chance she's like that to everyone but yeah I'm the shit so 43.2% she's like that to everyone. haha


    We were at work. She was at the counter behind me. I didn't see her obviously.

    Her: Hey neighbor!
    Me: (Ignore)
    Her: Hey neighbor! Hey neighbor! Hey neighbor!
    Me: (Ignore)
    Her: Hey neighbor! Hey neighbor! Hey neighbor!
    Me: Shut up.
    Her: (laughs)

    Other guy from work laughs at her.

    So she comes over beside me and starts tapping me.
    Her: Hey neighbor! Hey neighbor! Hey neighbor!

    That was so damn annoying. hahaha So I finally said:
    "Hey nerdball.(Thanks T) What do you look like without your glasses?"

    I know i got sucked in her frame and that i didn't lead but damn if I ever hear another "Hey neighbor!" I'm gonna start swinging.

    Whoa. light bulb! Maybe that's what I should do. (Whoa Did you feel that? Chills.)

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    Default Re: Is this a shit test?

    this wasn't at work i'd say she was asking for a kiss by being a bit of a pest. :P
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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