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    Knochig is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Subtle Game Suddenly Gone. What's Going On?

    I like practicing being attractive with subtlety with almost every woman I meet. I often avoid flirtation and giving off IOI's with women that I don't want but still practice with, but still manage to get them to giggle/play with their hair/ open their eyes overly wide/etc., without giving any signal of interest. I can usually do this with anyone, from store clerks to someone that I'm asking for directions from, to even college professors. I'm really good at using subtlety to make myself attractive, but lately I've been having a really hard time achieving this.

    Why is this happening? It's not that it's hurting my feelings (it probably is a little bit, and I'm probably suppressing that), but I'm trying to really maximize my game and doing everything in my power to become that most attractive man possible and lately my progress has stopped.

    The only hypothesis that I have is that I might have seemed less joyful and positive after going to a funeral and, perhaps, every interaction I've had with women has just affected the next interaction. But that domino effect has been going on for over a week now.

    Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Subtle Game Suddenly Gone. What's Going On?

    Everybody has off days, you can't expect to be on beast mode everytime you go out.

    My hypothesis is that you're used to receiving a positive reaction from a girl. So when you experienced the contrary you began forming thoughts, in other words overthinking.

    As you have said, you just came from a funeral. You might be going through tough times I don't know but I'm sure that It will pass, one day you're gonna go out and bam you're in state again.

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    Default Re: Subtle Game Suddenly Gone. What's Going On?

    That's kind of what my therapist said (You would be amazed by the kind of people who have therapists).

    As for the funeral, it was the burial for someone whose funeral I went to last year, so I shouldn't have too much repressed sadness left from it (although there were plenty of people crying still and it made me sad to see them cry and that gave a few jabs to my mirror neurons, but I didn't get to the point of crying). I'm still young and living with my parents and they've been pretty stressful lately, so that's probably putting me in a bad mood. I'm just wondering how much more until I should label it problematic and if there's anything that I can do now to get myself back a little bit faster.

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    Default Re: Subtle Game Suddenly Gone. What's Going On?

    Just give yourself a week off.

    Relax

    Many of the seducers I meet also have this hard time like you, they too decided to take an week off or more..

    You will surprise you will suddenly realize something that you had never realize before...and you will get better after that period.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Subtle Game Suddenly Gone. What's Going On?

    I just want to reiterate what everyone is saying. We all have bad days, sometime even a bad week. For me, this was an issue, I wanted to be at the top of my game at all times.. so I just brushed most of it off & didn't allow it to happen until it never did. Resistance & determination is key with achieving any success.
    I wish I was little bit taller
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    I would call her - Skee Lo, the OG AFC

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    Default Re: Subtle Game Suddenly Gone. What's Going On?

    It's back. Just like my therapist said it would be.


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