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Thread: Is my story a DHV, DLV or just bragging

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    Default Is my story a DHV, DLV or just bragging

    So first off, this is completely true. I went out to a dance club with my ex girlfriend and we both had been drinking a bit too much.

    As I excused myself to the bathroom and when I cam back there were these 3 guys trying to score with my girl and dance with her. My ex pretty much jumped on me when I came back and we started dancing again.

    The guys tried to get my girl's attention by dancing towards her and trying to touch her in the arm. I finally got in one if the dude's face and he shoved me real hard and I kind of lost control and fell backwards. So pretty much my ex started to cuss out the guys at the top of her lungs and the bouncers threw the boys out.

    I usually tell the story as it is. I've previously had the desired effect in the past and got the girls asking "damn how hot was she".

    But today it fell completely flat and the one of the chicks said that my girl had to pretty much save my ass. So what do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Is my story a DHV, DLV or just bragging

    To me, that story is DLV. Never make yourself look insecure, clumsy or be needed to be defended by a woman no matter how much she loves you.

    Not trying to be an a-hole here bro, I am just giving you an honest opinion so that you do GREAT with girls going forward.

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    Default Re: Is my story a DHV, DLV or just bragging

    I second what Dave said. It's a DLV story.

    When you are truly confident and secure, you are threatened by NO MAN. The fact that you have to get into a guy's face, sub-communicates to a woman that you are threatened by him enough to bring the guy down a notch (more so than your girl was). When you are the top, you shouldn't feel the need to bring anyone DOWN. You know why there is a Pepsi Challenge? Because Coca-Cola doesn't have to compare itself to anything. Be Coke.

    Notice how other woman's question "How hot was she?" only demonstrates how pre-selection is true. Preselection is when women see you with another beautiful woman, they automatically conclude you are a man of high value = attractive. They don't care about your actions of getting into a guy's face in the least.

    So no, don't use this story.

    However, if you told a woman a version that these guys were like flies attracted to honey and the way you deal with a fly infested area is you took your sweet-thang by the hand and she willingly without hesitation vacated the premise with you, that's more DHV. But sadly, it didn't end the way it should.

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    Default Re: Is my story a DHV, DLV or just bragging

    Just want to add this piece of advice from Jason Capital regarding DHV story:

    5. Let your stories demonstrate Preselection for you too. We know how POWERFUL Preselection is and in your stories, you can trigger off that Preselection trigger every time. In most of the stories you tell, you want to include other girls in the story that were friends of yours (keep it ambiguous though, you don’t have to share details, just that she was there with you). This does the same thing her seeing you with other girls in the venue would do: It lets her know other girls like you, approve of you, are likely attracted to you and overall, makes you MUCH more attractive to her.

    (credit: Jason Capital)

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    Default Re: Is my story a DHV, DLV or just bragging

    DHV stories are my specialty.

    Dave hit the nail right on the head. Literally spot on advice.

    In a story NEVER NEVER NEVER make yourself look weak, or in any way, clumsy, etc.

    If you want to tell a deep story about something deep, (childhood, whatever) That's completely different. When you talk about something deep like that, you build deep rapport and chemistry which is essential in not only provoking an emotional response in her, (you're being vulnerable) but getting her hooked on you. It's very tough to put into words.

    Obviously that doesn't apply in your case.

    Don't use that story, you look weak. If a I heard you say that story I would giggle like a school girl to be honest man. Not trying to be mean, but you're girlfriend should never have to protect you. That's messed up gender roles.

    The best way to tell DHV stories? You don't. You live an awesome freaking life man, and you do awesome things. That way when you tell people about them, they're not you telling stories, they're you telling people about what you did yesterday, last week, YOUR LIFE.

    You're not even trying to DHV. Just you talking about your life. There is a big difference. HUGE.

    Once you start doing awesome things, that's when everything becomes natural and you don't even have to worry about "game".

    Look up Mark Manson on being truly vulnerable. It will shock you. Mark Manson changed my entire outlook on life, game, etc. (THis also has nothing to do with your post, i'm just getting side tracked.)

    So go out and live life. Do awesome things. Regret nothing. Only when you truly make your life an awesome place, will you finally understand the power of DHV stories and how naturally they should come.

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    Default Re: Is my story a DHV, DLV or just bragging

    Just echoing what everyone else said - huge dlv and far from bragging

    Telling it from her perspective would make it a dhv. Take the elements in your story that apply to her - pre-selection (an ex plus three try hards), alpha (being confrontational), and, sadly, protector (you know why ).

    So, take those elements and think of something that would allow you to label yourself as one or all of them. Good luck


    Quote Originally Posted by Kyl3 View Post

    Look up Mark Manson on being truly vulnerable. It will shock you. Mark Manson changed my entire outlook on life, game, etc. (THis also has nothing to do with your post, i'm just getting side tracked.)
    Just checked out his site - we're very like minded. It's nice to see someone put their thoughts into words so well. Even if it's exactly how you look at things, hearing/reading it from someone else is mind blowing. Kudos!
    Always leave her better than you found her.


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