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    Default Can't Be Heard In a Bar/Club

    Experienced this problem while I was out talking to an attractive girl last weekend. I have a deeper voice and always had a hard time being heard in loud environments even with friends. The place was long and narrow, so if I had tried to move her to a different spot it would've been equally as loud. Not being able to be heard after multiple attempts became really frustrating lol. Its a huge barrier to any game I can hope to try as it can't be heard anyway. Any suggestions to help with this?

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    Default Re: Can't Be Heard In a Bar/Club

    Loud places are annoying, I want to be heard because I always have lots of interesting things to say, but loud environments do afford you a good opportunity to lean in, get very close, and talk into her ear ..... for women the ear is an androgynous zone and getting your mouth in close can be a very intimate thing ...it's also a plus if you smell good .... have had many girls ask me what cologne I'm wearing when I've leaned in ..... Good Luck

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    Default Re: Can't Be Heard In a Bar/Club

    Dude take her outside of the building or away from the noise. Be alone with her. She may make excuses but just make it urgent, or you're going on an adventure, or whatever. Justify it and she'll follow

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    Default Re: Can't Be Heard In a Bar/Club

    It doesn't matter if you can hear or not.
    BODY LANGAGE is more important than the words coming out of your mouth or hers.

    You don't need "conversations" to build attraction... In fact, conversations DON'T build attraction; they build rapport.

    Save that for later.

    In a loud club just be confident, fun & energetic.


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    Default Re: Can't Be Heard In a Bar/Club

    I think Mystery had a routine where in loud clubs he wrote what he wanted to say on his smart phone then he would hand the phone to the girl so she could respond ... he would have whole conversations without saying a word .... pretty funny

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    Default Re: Can't Be Heard In a Bar/Club

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    I think Mystery had a routine where in loud clubs he wrote what he wanted to say on his smart phone then he would hand the phone to the girl so she could respond ... he would have whole conversations without saying a word .... pretty funny
    Yeah I did that before. It worked fine. Thought of it on my own tho

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    Default Re: Can't Be Heard In a Bar/Club

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    Loud places are annoying, I want to be heard because I always have lots of interesting things to say, but loud environments do afford you a good opportunity to lean in, get very close, and talk into her ear ..... for women the ear is an androgynous zone and getting your mouth in close can be a very intimate thing ...it's also a plus if you smell good .... have had many girls ask me what cologne I'm wearing when I've leaned in ..... Good Luck
    Thanks. I'm new and trying to sift through all the information (so much )but read that leaning in was bad. I guess it is situational.

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    I think Mystery had a routine where in loud clubs he wrote what he wanted to say on his smart phone then he would hand the phone to the girl so she could respond ... he would have whole conversations without saying a word .... pretty funny
    I actually thought of this in the moment but then second-guessed myself thinking that it would be awkward (it was awk the only time I tried it before) and decided not to.

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    Default Re: Can't Be Heard In a Bar/Club

    Gotta trust everything you do. Do everything with purpose

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    Default Re: Can't Be Heard In a Bar/Club

    If you are going to do the phone thing you have to be a good texter so you can type fast .... long pauses in the message exchange will kill it

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    Default Re: Can't Be Heard In a Bar/Club

    Hi dark knight,

    just lightly pull her in & closer to you so she can heard.

    If no, just use your body language to show her that you can't heard her (although you might can) and take her hand and lead her out of the club.

    Hope this help,
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