Re: Please Help! I need to get my mind strait.
Not only do you sound needy but you sound like you have oneitis. You have made it clear you have some value but it doesnt sound like you believe it. What i mean is that if you believe you are the best guy out there why would it be so easygo catch you? If you were a guy full of social and financial wealth you have the value of an HB10. Why settle so easily if you have so much value? If you believe your worth is great why are you swinging your emotions left and right for someone who isn't chasing you? Why are you chasing them? You need to ask yourself more questions than you do in pursuing. Your value system is blinding you in your goals as well as what is worth your time and effort.
If you want her to chase you give mixed signals and throw her off. Instead of being the one early for a date--be late or flake the day of. Change it up to being the hot chick in the relationship. Be powerful by owning and leading the relationship. It can be a tough role to play but if she wants you--she will run to you.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.