Re: Please Help! I need to get my mind strait.
Showing and having these feelings isnt a bad thing. Its all about how you handle it. The more you freeze yourself over in the situations the more likely the girl will feel awkward and confused. I do this sometimes. Its a bit out of my control still but im not going to over think it if i can continue to talk to her. One thing we all need to learn is when to pull back and when to push. When she's not responding hold your frame and pull back in frequency. Reintiate at another comfortable time for you. Play the cards you wan to play and when you play them hold them out strongly. Don't apologize if she isn't for it. If you apologize for you're interests she's unable to gauge and trust the things you said because you just took back your words and actions. Learn to distract women with newer shiney things--such as different topics when it gets uncomfortable. Its partially deflecting but it's also trying to save a moment before it gets worse.
A lot of inner game needs to be developed with an understanding of who you are; what you want and how you plan to go about getting it.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.