Re: Random bs oneitis bitch
Well yeah that's what she should have said not you. Remember chicks love mysterious. Never display your long term intentions unless they ask. You should instead blow them off for a couple days after a meet up but instead texted her right away.
My last date she was texting me that she wanted to do it again and I was done. Anyway this girl I talk to texts me everyday and I barely ever initiate. It's been 2 days and still haven't blown through my new numbers I got the Bar yet. Usually high end passion on your part ends in high end rejection on her part. When you are kinda "bleh" she will kind of "bleh" reject you. But when you go full blown on a girl be careful because she will go full blown wild nightmare horse on you in rejecting you.
Other than that you mentioned Oneitis. That's really kinda easy. Let them have Oneitis for you but not the other way around. This took me a while but I no longer get Oneitis I just talk to and get as many girls as I can to play them. This makes me less needy and more player-ish. But because I only closed the 10 the other night and treated her as my only option I think she caught on. I never cash in my chips now. I know no matter how nice she is to me or how much she seems to like me secretly the Nightmare Horse is lurking to strike. So best to be indifferent and let go of your inhibitions. It's not lost until she flat out rejects you though with words. After a full rejection waiting 3 months was the old player rule before trying again. I tried the 3 month thing on a hardcore rejection and had her coming back. So now you know.
What I mean by not getting Oneitis is I don't have the time or money to date all these women I talk to. So now I frame it as a "hookup" usually indicating nothing more. But switching to this from the "dating" mindset I texted the 10 while at work some hot and wild stuff and she texted me some huge long love letter which racked my mind the rest of the day. She wanted to hookup right then!
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.