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    Default Random bs oneitis

    Ughh.. Need somewhere to vent. Probably not interesting at all, but I'm posting it.

    Met this awesome chick the other day.. Lot of text chat, couple of meets, then boom! quiet. Not a word!! Screwingggggg

    Seemed to be going great on the last meet, she's talkin about some cool interesting shit, I'm thinking hey this might be someone I could spend some time with. couple of kisses, loads of laughing. Then I farked it up.

    Half needy text message after I got home "Really enjoyed it tonight, wanna do it again?" then panicked thinkin I should have said more to her (actually let her know she's more than just a lay), so tried to rectify it 20mins later, ended up sounding more needy! aha Terrible

    anyway, it's properly farked now.
    I sent another text late the next day after no reply. Again, no reply
    So being properly interested in this bitch's outlook on life, I sent ANOTHER text today.. asking about something she was doing yesterday.

    So really yea, I don't need advice. I know it's farked. I know it was needy text messages and then chasing up because I'm excited by her.

    It's always the same, girls I give no fark about the game is ok, I'm usually the one not hitting them back. As soon as I actually like a girl, I feel like I owe it to her to NOT game her, treat her as a 'friend' be honest and shit, actually interested in her and BOOM always goes tits up lmao

    So yea, feel for me.. slap me.. call me a cock.. pop up for a chat.. Whatever.

    It's oneitits. hope it only lasts a day or two! feel for me farkers!!

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    Default Re: Random bs oneitis bitch

    Lots of here say. Cant really give advice until more details given
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Random bs oneitis bitch

    Saying "want to do it again?" instead of "lets do it again" is not something that will cause a girl to never speak to you again. Tell us exactly what the second text said, since apparently that was the worse one.

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    Default Re: Random bs oneitis bitch

    Well yeah that's what she should have said not you. Remember chicks love mysterious. Never display your long term intentions unless they ask. You should instead blow them off for a couple days after a meet up but instead texted her right away.

    My last date she was texting me that she wanted to do it again and I was done. Anyway this girl I talk to texts me everyday and I barely ever initiate. It's been 2 days and still haven't blown through my new numbers I got the Bar yet. Usually high end passion on your part ends in high end rejection on her part. When you are kinda "bleh" she will kind of "bleh" reject you. But when you go full blown on a girl be careful because she will go full blown wild nightmare horse on you in rejecting you.

    Other than that you mentioned Oneitis. That's really kinda easy. Let them have Oneitis for you but not the other way around. This took me a while but I no longer get Oneitis I just talk to and get as many girls as I can to play them. This makes me less needy and more player-ish. But because I only closed the 10 the other night and treated her as my only option I think she caught on. I never cash in my chips now. I know no matter how nice she is to me or how much she seems to like me secretly the Nightmare Horse is lurking to strike. So best to be indifferent and let go of your inhibitions. It's not lost until she flat out rejects you though with words. After a full rejection waiting 3 months was the old player rule before trying again. I tried the 3 month thing on a hardcore rejection and had her coming back. So now you know.

    What I mean by not getting Oneitis is I don't have the time or money to date all these women I talk to. So now I frame it as a "hookup" usually indicating nothing more. But switching to this from the "dating" mindset I texted the 10 while at work some hot and wild stuff and she texted me some huge long love letter which racked my mind the rest of the day. She wanted to hookup right then!
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: Random bs oneitis

    I can see you are probably taking too long to bed her. She's waiting you so long to make your move, but I guess you probably didn't.

    In the end, she told herself you are not actually that sexy as she thought.

    Another thing is during that time is probably her fertile time, women at fertile time is like going out for a mission (have sex with a decent man); and when she felt that you won't help her complete her mission, she move on.

    Next time, just move the interaction forward faster and cut away any unnecessary stuffs to bed her

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    Default Re: Random bs oneitis

    I think the first message was "i had fun tonight.. I'm gonna have to see you again x"

    Then, being stoned up 25mins later and thinking "shit she's really nice, i should probably be less aloof" i decided to try rectify it with something to make her feel more special.. fail.

    "Yo, i'm super tired to be writing. I really enjoyed being round you. wanna do it again?"

    It's like this.. there are plenty of girls, but I'm looking for one who can hold me down. She has to be powerful, she has to be the boss. i don't want her to be my little "yes sir" girl. They get boring fast.

    Fuck knows what happened to this one.. she seems the type to say "fuck off" rather than just go quiet. Who knows, maybe she'd have text back if i was more patient.

    thrown it up the wall now though. Text her about 24hours after like "ok you've let me sweat enough now. Monday 3pm?" Then when she didn't reply i used her number for entertainment.. 20 texts like 3 words long in an hour trying to bully a reaction lol nevermind.

    She was the one in love with me. She was the one who came to give me her number, hands shaking, telling me about the butterflies and feelings after a couple of days.

    Maybe she just wanted me to fuck her, maybe my breath smelt when i kisses her, maybe she just likes being chased. Oh well.. next.

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    Default Re: Random bs oneitis

    Quote Originally Posted by Naughty Napoleon View Post
    I can see you are probably taking too long to bed her. She's waiting you so long to make your move, but I guess you probably didn't.

    Next time, just move the interaction forward faster and cut away any unnecessary stuffs to bed her
    You might be right.. maybe she just wanted the d. Sadly for her, she has to earn it. This right here is quality product. This hunt for a girl is a different approach to getting the ride. She needs to be special and early rides just leave me bored treating them like a whore.

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    Default Re: Random bs oneitis

    Quote Originally Posted by .complete.noob View Post
    I think the first message was "i had fun tonight.. I'm gonna have to see you again x"

    Then, being stoned up 25mins later and thinking "shit she's really nice, i should probably be less aloof" i decided to try rectify it with something to make her feel more special.. fail.

    "Yo, i'm super tired to be writing. I really enjoyed being round you. wanna do it again?"

    It's like this.. there are plenty of girls, but I'm looking for one who can hold me down. She has to be powerful, she has to be the boss. i don't want her to be my little "yes sir" girl. They get boring fast.

    fark knows what happened to this one.. she seems the type to say "fark off" rather than just go quiet. Who knows, maybe she'd have text back if i was more patient.

    thrown it up the wall now though. Text her about 24hours after like "ok you've let me sweat enough now. Monday 3pm?" Then when she didn't reply i used her number for entertainment.. 20 texts like 3 words long in an hour trying to bully a reaction lol nevermind.

    She was the one in love with me. She was the one who came to give me her number, hands shaking, telling me about the butterflies and feelings after a couple of days.

    Maybe she just wanted me to fark her, maybe my breath smelt when i kisses her, maybe she just likes being chased. Oh well.. next.
    Those first 2 texts still aren't that bad. The first one is neutral, it won't help or hurt you. The second is slightly bad, but its still nothing that will make her want to never speak to you again. Like before, someone you've kissed isn't gonna drop you just because you asked her if she wanted to hang out again.

    Now, the third text is a problem. It implies that you're obsessing over her, and that she has power over you. That was a bad one. And then, you basically started trolling her with 20 texts in 60 minutes and I guarantee you that she became so irritated that she blocked you just to stop her phone from constantly ringing.

    Just use it as a learning experience. I don't know about this whole "fertile time" business, but going for the f-close (or close to it) is usually a good idea on date 2. Also, you now know not to send a text like that third one again.

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    Default Re: Random bs oneitis

    Still not blocked.. which is the annoying thing, tbh!

    I hoped blowing up her phone would do that.. closure, you know? But I can still get her on whatsapp.

    I never called her. Granted, after 4days no response it's hard for her to make it anymore clear, other than blocking me or saying outright "not happening"

    I think she just loves the attention.. she's built up some kind of online fan base. Some suicide girl or something. Pretty hot shit. Any advice on another move, or is this deffo pissing in the wind now?

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    Default Re: Random bs oneitis

    Scratch that last question.. I don't want her lol

    She knows I wanted to talk to her, she denied me that. I'm offended and angry. This oneitis thing is (i think) 90% ego. Who is she to not like me? Who is this person denying me what I want? How dare she?

    Truth be told, I don't know her at all. I'm just disappointed I haven't got what I want from her.


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