A girl just got out of a long term relationship 4 years, I want to be more than just the rebound guy for one night. We hooked up recently, no f-close, and I messaged maybe a bit too much compared to what I usually would (nothing crazy and I always got replies, although the last one was sort of a slow down I'm not ready). I wouldn't say I was needy but maybe a bit too persistent.

So I'm going to freeze her out for a bit and date other girls. But I was wondering how long would you think is a good length of time to freeze unless she contacts me in a very positive way. Given the length and seriousness of her last relationship I was thinking a couple of months.