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    Default A girl in a bar said to me this...what would you say

    she said: get me a drink or get off of my way
    what would you respond in a funny way? lol

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    Default Re: A girl in a bar said to me this...what would you say

    Ask her what would she recommend then order the drink and a glass of water. Down the whole thing then hand her the water.

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    Default Re: A girl in a bar said to me this...what would you say

    That's a compliance test.

    The best way to handle that would be to say something like, "Sure, I'll buy you a drink, but first you have to do a little dance for me. (or give me a kiss, or a hug, or whatever)" Then smile & wait.

    Basically, you want HER to comply with you first. After that it's totally OK to buy her a drink, or do whatever she asked (within reason of course.)

    You don't have to be a dick & refuse or shoot her down... just flip the script like that & you're OK.

    Most chumps would just buy the drink.
    Most jerks would just tell her to take a hike.

    But when you play along & give HER your own compliance test first, you pass hers.


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    Default Re: A girl in a bar said to me this...what would you say

    Be quiet, sit beside her or stand beside her for 2 secs without looking at her like you have some thoughts in mind, then turn to her & smile

    "Tell me an interesting story then I will buy you a drink, deal?"

    Say it slow with a sexy & husky voice.

    Works like a charm for me..

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    Default Re: A girl in a bar said to me this...what would you say

    Basically, make her work for it. Tell her she has to do something for the drink. Some light physical contact like a kiss on the cheek, or something funny/goofy action.

    Quote Originally Posted by Grey2fox View Post
    Ask her what would she recommend then order the drink and a glass of water. Down the whole thing then hand her the water.
    That's a good one.

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    Default Re: A girl in a bar said to me this...what would you say

    Her: Buy me a drink or get off of my way
    You: Well, aren't you charming? What's your name?

    If she tells you her name. It is on. She's probably not that bad of a person, just play your game. Otherwise...

    her: Fuck off!
    You: Wow you have the personality of a one-eyed toad. How charming. Do you like jelly beans?


    Just do it for your own amusement. Push it to the limits. haha

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    Default Re: A girl in a bar said to me this...what would you say

    My response would be "maybe I should call you a cab instead. It sounds like you've already had too many."

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    Default Re: A girl in a bar said to me this...what would you say

    Compliance test is the way to go. It buffers her b!tch shield. How you handle it is more important than how she's asking it. I would do any of the above naughty napoleon and t-mall suggested. Personally for me after the compliance test and buying her a drink i'd give her one more small task--such as at least getting her name with her drink in your hand. This way it gives you something to work in your head as she's drinking to be able to builf banter off of. A name can give you more room to givd her a cold read and allow things to bounce back and forth much more easily. Think of the earlier parts as the opener and before you hand it to her it's now transitioning into proper introducfions. From here you'll have a few more steps to proceed in conversation with her.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: A girl in a bar said to me this...what would you say

    I think Mystery had a sort of compliance test ... he would give the girl money and tell her to get him a drink like a Jameson & 7 with a twist of lime and for her to get whatever she wanted, he would then go to the rest room ..... if when he got back his drink wasn't correct he would bust her balls, if she got it right he would pat her on the head and tell her she's a good girl. He would also have something to say about what drink she ordered

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    Default Re: A girl in a bar said to me this...what would you say

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    That's a compliance test.

    The best way to handle that would be to say something like, "Sure, I'll buy you a drink, but first you have to do a little dance for me. (or give me a kiss, or a hug, or whatever)" Then smile & wait.

    Basically, you want HER to comply with you first. After that it's totally OK to buy her a drink, or do whatever she asked (within reason of course.)

    You don't have to be a d1ck & refuse or shoot her down... just flip the script like that & you're OK.

    Most chumps would just buy the drink.
    Most jerks would just tell her to take a hike.

    But when you play along & give HER your own compliance test first, you pass hers.
    Totally agree. The jerk route is MUCH better than the chump route however. I also must disagree that you're being a dick for refusing to buy her a drink.

    I've ran into similar situations in the past and I usually just tell the girl to take a hike. I know what type of woman I like and they are the "sweet heart" types that normally wouldn't act this way. However, I've also had women ask me to buy them a drink and I turn it around on them. I smile and get an amused look on my face and say "I'll buy you a drink but you have to buy me one first". That usually works.

    I've also ran a compliance test where I make them dance with me first THEN I'll buy them a drink. If I go out with them a second time I make them buy me a drink. You can honestly say anything as long as you are confident and have a smile on your face. Just don't straight up buy her a drink.


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