I am now more sure then ever before that my theory is right.
Texted her yesterday morning, got an instant answer. Like I wrote and stuff and she instanly answered... kinda creepy (if guys did that they would be a total creep).
Here is the chat (tried to translate it so you can understand it):
Me: You wont believe what happened HAHA
She: what is it?
Me: A russian guy insulted me.. guess what he said (it is an insider between us with russian people insulting other people and so on)
She: Blabla (wrong guess, she guessed another insider)
She: cant imagine something else
Me: CYKA BLJIAD. I thought it was just a clichee
She: haha oh god
Me: Say that like a angry russian woman
Me: Voice Message (with the thing she didn`t wanted to say)
Me: YO I am in xyz (her hometown) at sunday and take part in a russian class for beginners you are interested in that too right
She: No actually not
Me: Shit then I have to sit next to a russian guy wearing an adidas jacket OH NO
She: thats not good
She: I got an adidas jacket too
Me: Then your name is Olga now
Me: I own an adidas jacket too :O hi I am stanislav
- had to go offline then for meeting friends -
Talked to a friend of mine about the whole thing, told him chronologically basically everything we (she and me) did together, what she did, what she does and stuff and he said she is hundert percent totally into me. I talked with him about her/the strange situation some times already but he just knew some things and not the whole story and said I am misinterpreting things too, like you guys said.
But yeah it might help you if I tell some more details:
- she wanted to drive scooter with me, had her hands around me and was laughing like getting a nice dose of dopamine
- we hugged and stuff like that for so many times
- if I think about the past, within the last 6 months (thats basically how long we really know each other) there were always signs from her contacting me, but always her seeking my attention
- one good example for the things she does is this: we sat down in school (me and like 6 girls), they were talking about things I am not interested in so I chatted via Whatsapp and was not giving attention to them girls, it always happens that at some point she searches the conversation with me. When we talked for a while and she had fun she sat down next to me to show me some pictures which I am also not interested in and another girl said "do you really think he is interested in that?", she said "I`ll show it to him anyways" as if she just needs a reason to sit next to me
- another example: as she dresses up like she would be going to a party in school her outfits are kinda perfect I have to admit, then there are things like she is turning a bit around, playing with her ring which had that "LOVE" engraving. Also she played with her hair and stuff and while doing these things she looked over her shoulder to me...
So I would say she is totally into me, wants to forget me, has farking pain because of that because she has to see me like everyday, when I asked her if she is into me she said no and I was like I dont care and implicitly said that now this problem finally is over (that must have farking hurt her, I feel like such an asshole right now), the day after this she was doing this bitchy things at this party (hugging and trying to make out with other guys when I was near her), then I stopped investing as I already mentioned and she changed her pic for some times, changed her status 3 times a day (now it`s still "can`t forget you"). Yeah and then the thing with her answering instantly like she was waiting for me to write her at !9am! at the weekend...
I feel strange telling all these things because the whole thing is farking strange. If I wouldnt know these things happened I would think the guy who wrote this is paranoid or something (thinking everything people do is about him) or stuff.
But I can say that pickup is so farking powerful with younger girls because they don`t get all these games and stuff. It`s not only her doing things like that, other girls are getting my number from somewhere I don`t even know and write me when they are drunk too... I put the pickup things and these alpha dominant behaviour things into my personality and I am constantly playing when I talk to girls. It is fun but I want to lay the girls not make them fall into love with me so I have to calibrate every farking word to not sound like a guy who just wants to fark them.
So I really would like to see her today and talk about all that, I am very sorry for her feeling that pain. I dont want her to hate me and having to go out of my way just to not feel the pain...