Sorry for that lengthy thread, but I am kinda confused. I messaged a chick online, she responded, we emailed back & forth & then N-closed. We texted (on Sunday)for a bit then set a date 6 days away. She kinda seemed cold after Monday texting (the first day we text), then in the middle of the week (Wednesday) She sent me a text asking what's up. etc.. .then cold again until Friday in the morning. She sent me: "I am excited to meet you tonight, can we meet at 8 instead of 7? if not, no problem) I said it was no problem.
We met later, she seemed cool, we flirted back & forth kissed at the end. I texted her when I went home:
Me: Hey, it was fun meeting you tonight
Her: I had a lovely time Are you home safe & sound?
Me: Yep! I had fun myself
Her: Blah blah blah
Me: Blah blah blah
Then went cold after that, in the middle of the week again, she texted me again, we flirt back & forth, set a date for the next Sunday. Then she went cold again. Sunday morning, she texted me "I am excited to see you tonight "
Met that Sunday for drinks, talked & flirted, there was a solid intimacy, she said:
Her: It's weird how can you read my mind
Me: Well, What can I say? I am awesome you know.
She laughed then she tried to read my thoughts & analyze my character, she said:
Her: You seem to be the kind of guy who care about others & take responsibility & considerate to other people's pain (I was talking to her earlier about experiences in the past)
Me: I don't know you tell me later
Had so much fun that day, then kissed at the end. An hour later, she sent me "I had so much fun Thank you so much"
Then after that, went cold again till the next weekend, she texted me she was packing for vacation with her mom (she told me about that on the second date) then went cold after that again.
Now, I texted her again, we were talking about different things, then I told her, we should meet next Saturday, she didn't respond for an hour or so, then she said she'd love to but she has plans with her family, But she asked if next Saturday works for me?
Now, I am confused, why she isn't texting that much then show up on a date & flirt, then go cold then do the same over & over.
Also, scheduling a date far away seems like an excuse to me. What do you guys think?