My card pyramid just fell into pieces. A little bit tipsy so bare with me here . I just got back from a night out that I left early and also left a girl who I thought was interested in me who I even sexted and flirted for the last 2 weeks. She was giving my friend all the IOIs and she was touchy feely with him so I backed away as the general rule is Bros before hoes. This same night I was working things out with another girl from a set I opened and #closed and set a night out the next weekend. However on this particular night she says she just wants to be friend because another guy (who I know) says is interested in her and did so before me. I did back away as I respected the fact he came up to me and said he wants her.
Anyway these are not the points. I just wanna know, how do you cope with when things don't go your way spectacularly. Not just one or two but multiple at the same time. The ego is a fragile thing and the ego is within the paradigm of where your personality, ideologies and belief system co-exist. They balance each other out. One falters and the rest go down with it. I'm new to pua and still learning and would love to hear from those that have gone past this stage and or know how to handle it. Thank you in advance.