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    Default How to be a pickup artist, but remain a gentleman?

    Hey guys I need you to give me some advice or pointers so I know what direction to go.

    I feel like I was kind of raised ol' fashioned, i'm 20 years old and i'm going into my last year of college. But the whole hookup scene kind of turns me off, yeah its kind of fun to go out and party but those aren't the types of girls I want to be with. Now i'm not saying I have to date these broads but how do I remain a gentleman and still be a PUA or well having one night stands with girls?

    I have a lot of girls tell me i'm a nice guy but all I really do is go out to lunch, dinner, coffee or something and talk to them, I always make so I know I dont get friendzoned but then how would I let them down easy without being a douche like every other guy, is there a gentleman way to have one night stands with girls?

    thanks

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    Default Re: How to be a pickup artist, but remain a gentleman?

    Honestly you have to create your morals that won't be changed no matter what and create your PU style using those foundations. No one said you have to be a douche to have one night stands, just talk to the girls in a way that doesn't compromise your morals.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: How to be a pickup artist, but remain a gentleman?

    Being a real gentleman means not deciding for her and giving her the options while intiating first. She will tell you when to pull back. Every light is green until its red if you pay attention properly. Don't read anything more than what its worth. If she's laughing and smiling a lot with a lot of eye contact and touching an you haven't kissed her yet then the door will close fast if you don't acknowledge that sign of everything going positive.

    Women are insecure just like men. Tey will tend to think "whats wrong with me? Am i not attractive enough for him to hug? Hold? Kiss? If she's clearly enjoying your company she wants you to lead and show her how far you're willing to take it. Keep in mind its step by step--you can't just kiss her after 10 seconds of meeting her--at least not most girls... Some girls might if the situation is right--but in most cases where they aren't most comfortable.

    Be a gentleman and show her a good time. Being a friendly guy who is afraid to act is friendzoning himself by only building rapport.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: How to be a pickup artist, but remain a gentleman?

    Remember, The game should only improve you not change you. It is a reflection of the real you, but better.

    Don't ever change for a girl. The only way to get a girl comes down to the cliche saying "Just be yourself" but don't be ashamed of it.

    For example, I'm naturally a bit of jerk but that was surpessed by soceity's stupid rules. But now I'm more comfortable being that. I accept that, I think it's fine and so people around me think it's fine as well. Law of transference. It's not bad unless you think it's bad.

    So if you're a real gentleman, then be a gentleman. You don't have to be a jerk to get girls.

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    Default Re: How to be a pickup artist, but remain a gentleman?

    I'm not gonna change for a girl, I was raised a gentleman and I'm gonna die one. I am just curious of how you let girls go (after a one night stand)? I kind if duck their phone calls, not want to hang out with them and move onto the next, but i feel thats wrong everytime i do it. I pick them up like a gentleman, i just want to let them down like one.


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