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    Default Weird help needed

    Okay so i need some help on this one it's a bit nuts.

    I met a girl in a bar last tuesday, number closed then she stayed for a drink so i took her home and nailed her all night.

    on thursday i was supposed to meet her in the evening, she says i finish too late workwise but do i have a break?

    i say yes, she drives to my work picks me up takes me home fucks me for 2 hours then she drives me back to work arranging to meet on saturday night.

    saturday night comes she cancels because she's a nurse and had to work late, but do i want to meet up sunday (today) morning before she drives back to her mums till next week.

    i say sure

    she texts me this morning like 10 ( she first not me) and says im gonna go meet a friend in town do you wanna meet me after that before i go to my mums. i say yes we exchange a few texts i ask no questions in my last text so i understand no reply from her. It's sunday and i have shit to do so i just text her about an hour and a half later (about half 12) saying, "roughly what time do you want me to come see you" then no reply from her.

    ive not even thought about sending another text or phoning and i have made a few posts on facebook to show that i have been busy today doing other shit. Also made sure that i was talking on my status with other girls and friends about where we went out last night, showing i do other shit with other people if she cancels on me.

    im thinking the second text what time might have been a bit meh twice in a row but i figure after we have actually had sex and i am busy it's a fair deal.

    Is this weird or is it just me

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    Default Re: Weird help needed

    She could have meant for you come as soon you texted, and she was busy with her friend in town in that hour and a half later. Just next time when you're setting something up, simply set a definite time.

    I think it's no big deal. If you have farked several times then I think she will eventually get back to you. She just could be busy, and hasn't checked her phone. I've been guilty of that a few times.

    Try not to get too worked up about it. I think you should have back up plans for the night so your day isn't entirely centered on this woman, and it doesn't ruin your day if she doesn't get back to you. If she doesn't text or call back, my advice would be to just go out and have some fun.

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    Default Re: Weird help needed

    Be more clear with logistics next time. Thats usually the issue.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Weird help needed

    Hey guys thanks for the responses, i think its a walk away to be honest.

    She text at midnight that night saying she had been in a terrible mood and was sorry that she didnt go home and did i want to meet up when she got back. i waited till the next afternoon to reply and got an instant response saying yeah im, back thursday but out for two birthday nights but lets meet up" then waited till after work saying " yeah lets meet up im off thursday, you out thursday fri or fri sat?" she just didnt respond. just a bit of game playing so i didnt text again she might hit me up when she gets back.

    what do i do in that situation do i go fuck her? seems that i give up power like that, i'm thinking it might be better if that happens that i tell her im busy till sunday and have control and spend fri sat looking for something else having fun.

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    Default Re: Weird help needed

    Just stop texting her. She'll initiate because it will drive her crazy that you've stopped texting her. Then when she does text you and wants to set up a date, be busy that day and tell her to suggest a different date.

    Right now you're letting her lead the power dynamic. You need to switch that around. This is the perfect example of when a mini freeze out will work like a charm.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Weird help needed

    so if there is no response at all do you cut loss or do you initiate at any stage? ive not double text but had no response since monday.

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    Default Re: Weird help needed

    If she doesn't respond just re-initiate as if nothing has happened and build a little sexual attraction to get her more emotionally commited rather than just time and place factual conversation.


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